Is it normal to not do a lot of self pleasure being a 21 yr old girl?

I was just wondering; you always hear about guys jerking off whenever they have time (I guess this is a bit over the top as well, but I wouldn't know). But being a girl, I don't pleasure myself very often. Actually, maybe like once per 4 months, maybe even less (depends on my mood). I'm embarrassed really quickly and I feel weird by doing it.
I was just wondering, do a lot of girls do it, like with toys or even without, or is this something for guys only? I haven't met a lot of girls that say they do; they just get a guy for sex if they want to, but I'm just not like that. I'm sort of scared though that I'm different since I'm not too busy with the whole "exploring myself" thing. It feels weird to do so, but sometimes I feel weird not doing so..

Is It Normal?
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  • Playing with oneself is probably the oldest thing in the World. We all do it at some stage, male or female, I do not care of you are a priest or a Nun, you also do it as it is the most natural thing in the World!

    I sometimes do it up to three times in one day then do not masturbate for about two or three days and then masturbate every day for two weeks in a row (with a bit of copulation in between)

    Do not feel embarrassed about exploring your pussy, it belongs to you and you are free to do with it what you please!If the mood grabs you and you feel like pushing a nice cold cucumber into it, go for it, if you only feel like fingering it a bit with two of your fingers whilst rubbing your clitty furiously, go for it!

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  • There are guys who don't do it often, and girls who probably do it more than your average guy. You have nothing to feel weird about. Do whatever feels comfortable to -you-

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  • Close your door and take off your clothes. Watch yourself in mirror. Think that a guy will some day come in ur life who will make u naked. He will taste ur puasy and ur ass. He will sniff ur pussy and ass and thn rubb ur clit and think about a person who u think is a sexy guy. Think about his cock. Think about he is licking u.
    U will find pleasure.

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  • I'm the same way if I'm not in a relationship I might masturbate maybe twice a year. It just isn't my thing. I wouldn't worry about it.

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  • Yeah your normal. I wish i could find a younger woman
    who isn't all about sex and likes real love, cuddle,
    kiss, hugs etc..I do like your way, i think that's
    awesome.

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  • I know women who masturbate every couple of days. Everyone is different. Just enjoy what and when you do it.

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