Is it normal to not believe in true love?

When I see love stories I can't take it seriously, I don't believe anyone has true strong love on each other. When I see my friends in relationships for years at a time, I just can't believe any of it is real, unfortunately. I wish I did.
Is it normal?

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Based on 54 votes (43 yes)
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  • sez_me

    A lot of people don't believe in true love, it's a hard concept to grasp. Caring for and loving someone so much that you'd give your life for them any day for the rest of your life!
    I think it depends on who you meet, I would never question it though. Movies are meant to be sappy and stupid, true love is different for everyone.

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  • gaelicwolf

    There's no such thing as true love. The "experience" LoveHasNoAge is talking about is more than likely just infatuation, a stage that will eventually fade away. If you want a love that lasts forever, you have to make it work. It won't work just because someone is "meant for you", or their love is "true".

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  • ven067

    love is overrated because of hollywood

    this might be why you dont believe. I'm not a true believer myself but i'm sure it does exist somewhere.

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  • LoveHasNoAge

    It´s sad that you´ve never experienced love but i believe that most people haven´t actually. Even most of the married couples.

    I believe that there is only one TRUE love in a human life. Cause even if you love someone else you will ALWAYS sometimes stop and think of the person you really loved, even if it was a 100 years ago.

    I´ve experienced true love so i PROMISE you, it is real. You could die for that person and just touching them with you fingertip makes shivers run through your body. As i said before, i´ve experienced it but it was the classical forbidden love so now i´m out of hopes but it´s not to late for you, he´s out there, your chosen one.

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  • My fiance says the same thing. Just yesterday she saw me studying for my FINAL EXAM that is today (sorry, but it is about time) and she told me while eating the food I made for her way earlier in the day that each day I suprize her and make her truly happy.

    She claims she truly can't imagine life without me and it makes being mad at her suck because she will usually start crying and give in right afterwards. No, she is fine.

    Unfortunately, I am older and have been in a few bad relationships so believing love is eternal and forever I grew out of. I am happy to be with her and when she loses her weight I will be more "hot" for her but I'm just very happy to see her around.

    As for what the author wrote, I think you haven't experienced it yet and even knowing you probably won't admit it, I think you are jealous. You see them happy and truly don't understand why not you. Don't worry, focus on who you are INSIDE and it will happen eventually.

    Then you will understand.

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  • Jen118584

    Hopefully you'll believe in it one day because it definitely exists! My boyfriend has made me an entirely different person without even trying. I literally could not and would not want to live without him.

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  • JoethePlayerz

    Just an over-rated concept. There is no such thing dear. the earlier you realize it, the better.

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