I'm confused. Do you think that famous people are always romantically successful? Because that's definitely not true. It might be easy to have sex with groupies if you've achieved a certain level of fame, but that doesn't mean you don't have trouble with actual relationships. Often, fans aren't really interested in or attracted to who you really are, they're attracted to a fictional version of you who they've constructed in their heads based on your music, appearance, and press.
Also, not all love songs are written by famous people. The vast majority of musicians never get famous. Even the ones who get songs played on the radio or write songs that get reasonably well known (which most of them don't, by the way) often aren't particularly famous for any appreciable amount of time.
On a slightly different note, you should talk to a therapist about how you're dealing with your ex. This is not healthy.
Is it normal to not believe in love songs?
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I'm confused. Do you think that famous people are always romantically successful? Because that's definitely not true. It might be easy to have sex with groupies if you've achieved a certain level of fame, but that doesn't mean you don't have trouble with actual relationships. Often, fans aren't really interested in or attracted to who you really are, they're attracted to a fictional version of you who they've constructed in their heads based on your music, appearance, and press.
Also, not all love songs are written by famous people. The vast majority of musicians never get famous. Even the ones who get songs played on the radio or write songs that get reasonably well known (which most of them don't, by the way) often aren't particularly famous for any appreciable amount of time.
On a slightly different note, you should talk to a therapist about how you're dealing with your ex. This is not healthy.