First of all, why are you pining for guys to flirt with you when you have a boyfriend? If you want someone to flirt with you, strive for him to do it.
Second of all, stop focusing so much on your looks. You will never look like people in magazines or other people you compare yourself to, because you aren't them. You're you and that's what you need to focus on. I was the unhappiest in my life when I compared myself to others. As soon as I realized that hey, I might not look like my hot best friend, but that doesn't mean I'm worth any less than them, I became a much happier person.
It isn't worth your time to worry about your looks, because they are something you will never change. Worry about your character and your actions, because those are what define you. Looks are so mundane in this life and they never last.
Is it normal to not believe I'm attractive?
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First of all, why are you pining for guys to flirt with you when you have a boyfriend? If you want someone to flirt with you, strive for him to do it.
Second of all, stop focusing so much on your looks. You will never look like people in magazines or other people you compare yourself to, because you aren't them. You're you and that's what you need to focus on. I was the unhappiest in my life when I compared myself to others. As soon as I realized that hey, I might not look like my hot best friend, but that doesn't mean I'm worth any less than them, I became a much happier person.
It isn't worth your time to worry about your looks, because they are something you will never change. Worry about your character and your actions, because those are what define you. Looks are so mundane in this life and they never last.