well its more normal after a year to feel the love that you want to feel from the relationship. but maybe you just haven't yet decided what you want. when you're one year in you can't still be hoping for an inner burst of feeling or an epiphany of love, but you could still work on gradual acceptance. i know it sounds bleak but 'love' is far from a clear cut description and the level of passion required varies from person to person. for me, love is an inner acceptance of having the person in my life and of being in theirs that really just feels right
Is it normal to not be in love with your boyfriend after a year?
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well its more normal after a year to feel the love that you want to feel from the relationship. but maybe you just haven't yet decided what you want. when you're one year in you can't still be hoping for an inner burst of feeling or an epiphany of love, but you could still work on gradual acceptance. i know it sounds bleak but 'love' is far from a clear cut description and the level of passion required varies from person to person. for me, love is an inner acceptance of having the person in my life and of being in theirs that really just feels right