Is it normal to not be friends with your ex?
My break up with her was 2 weeks ago. she did it over text and apologized for that and apologized for being an awful girlfriend. She has a lot of problems, and the weeks leading up to this breakup I wasn't happy at all with her and didn't want to be with her but I prioritized her above me and thus threw away my self worth because I thought it would be wrong of me to give up on her like that with all shes gone through. She said she couldn't be in a relationship with me because of the guy named Dawson shes seen every summer for the past 4 years who she loves as she said, she also said that he makes her miserable and effects her life greatly and just the thought of him makes her not want to be in a relationship at all. At first I accepted it, I was and still am hurt but I have gone through my cycle of guilt regarding the relationship. I eventually came to my own conclusion that if I persist accepting this I am further disregarding my self worth and the effort I put in to be there for her regardless of how I felt and how bad she treated and was treating me. I feel like she cant keep blaming this Dawson guy and other reasons not mentioned for treating me like shit, I dont want much or anything to do with her and its hard because were in highschool (seniors) and she sits with all my friends from elementary school, they dont have a lot of girls in their life so my ex and whoever she brings along is great attention for them so I dont wanna be around that really. (ps: Im sorry for how rough this is, thank you for reading, any and all feedback is greatly appreciated)