Is it normal to not be attracted to guys as a girl?

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So, I'm a girl who does not find guys attractive. Not even remotely attractive.

I never turn my head for guys or stare at them, as I'm not physically attracted to them.

However, I often end up staring at girls. Another girls smile can linger in my brain for hours and her legs can mesmerize me. I feel all warm and fuzzy when I see a pretty girl.

However, I can't imagine going into bed with a girl. The thought of it disgusts me.

Meanwhile, I'd gladly hook up with a guy and let him seduce me.

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  • Chillypenguin178
    3 years ago | pl

    You're probably Homoromantic and Heterosexual. Romantically attracted to girls, and sexually attracted to guys.

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    • Nikclaire
      3 years ago | pl

      Or she is just a virgin who doesn't know what tf she wants yet. Don't go confusing her with even more labels.

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  • Fionalady
    3 years ago | pl

    It's normal. you are lesbian

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  • CDmale4fem
    3 years ago | pl

    Nothing at all wrong with you getting in bed with another female. Very normal and VERY HOT actually.

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  • randypete
    3 years ago | pl

    it's totally normal

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  • buzzybimaybe
    3 years ago | pl

    its totoally not normal i think you may be bisexual

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  • The_Judge
    3 years ago | pl

    Theres a difference between what turns you on, what you like and what you are willing to do in bed. Confusing them is very normal. Do what makes you happy and dont overthink your thoughts and feelings. I do know this is easier said than done, however it is what you should aim for nevertheless.

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  • Iszzy123
    3 years ago | pl

    So romanticly you like girls but physical want guys?
    What if someone had both male and female parts?

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  • cupcake_wants
    3 years ago | pl

    It sounds like you are a lesbian. Which is totally OK! Were you raised in a church that being gay is not OK? If so, just realize those teachings were based on the Catholic church, BEFORE the seperation of church and state when the church was the government and they abused power, and things like gay bashing got in there.

    If that is not an issue, then it should be easier. Just don't deny who you really are. That is you. If you have sex with a man, you won't enjoy it. Follow your heart!

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago | pl

    So you would have sex with a man, but you're not attracted to men? But you're attracted to women, but wouldn't have sex with them? What?
    Sounds like you're into women but repressing it for some reason because you feel like you "should" be attracted to men.
    Your question alone says that you have prejudices against being gay, otherwise you wouldn't even question if it's normal because obviously it is. A lot of women are lesbian and therefore don't find men attractive.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      3 years ago | pl

      Excatly. This post makes no damn sense. There is no way in hell OP is over 18.

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      • Nikclaire
        3 years ago | pl

        It makes sense to me. I find men to be hideous creatures but I love to give blow jobs and get fucked by them. I think maybe O.P means sex when she says seduced.

        She just needs to get over whatever is stopping her from wanting lesbian sex. She needs some training 😂 After her first taste of pussy she will be off and running.

        I say welcome to the team O.P haha.

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      • Sad18yo
        3 years ago | pl

        I don’t find men attractive, but I would love for one to seduce me and make love to me. Meanwhile, I find women very attractive and thoughts of their bodies linger in my mind for days. However, I would never get in bed with a woman, ick ick ick.

        ...this post makes my head spin like a top (and not in a good way)

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        • d0esnormalmatter
          3 years ago | pl

          Well the first sentence makes no damn sense. You can't "love for one to seduce you" if you don't find them attractive.

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  • SunSnow
    3 years ago | pl

    U r a bi.

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago | pl

    To each there own

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    3 years ago | pl

    yall got such beautiful eyes

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