Is it normal to not be able to share my emotions

I really want to tell my boyfriend how much I care about him, but everytime I try I either break down, or can't speak. In my head I know what I want to tell him, but I just can't say it. He's the first person in my life who actually cares how I feel. But I can share my feelings with him. This is causing problems in our relationship. And I really really want to fix it, but I'm not sure how. Any ideas?

Is It Normal?
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  • My boyfriend is actually like that . He writes me notes a lot of times to tell me how he feels. It is so much easier for him.

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  • Men are not interested in talking about this kind of stuff. If you want to show your love and affection for him in a way that he will for sure understand:

    1. Find out when he coming home.
    2. Have a hot meal and a cold beer waiting for him when he gets home.

    3. Have sex the way he likes it afterwords.

    You'll be getting all the cuddles and sweet talk you need after that.

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  • You have nothing to lose if you tell your feelings of care and love. All are craving for appreciation and the assurance of being loved. I bet your bf wants to hear it from you.

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  • i think it's normal for me, male.
    But I hate it.

    I can't really say how much i care and how much i love my GF.

    She is everything to me, the only right thing in my life is her.

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  • Write "You make me so happy. Wanna have a threesome?"
    that would probably make his YEAR.

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  • You're sharing emotion with us. Try something similar with him like Shackleford said.

    And yeah normal. Most people don't like sharing what they feel.

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  • Try writing them down.

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