Is it normal to not be able to get hard or aroused

I just can't get hard or aroused anymore. Even after trying to watch pornography for hours, I just can't get hard or aroused. My sexual excitement has become so weak, it's almost completely nonexistent in me now. Is that normal?

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38% Normal
Based on 39 votes (15 yes)
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Comments ( 25 )
  • Thongman

    Too much porn can desensitize you. If you are older you may need more stimulation or could be a health problem or low T.

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  • Nutmegf

    you may need a break or something different. There are other ways you could please a woman, the penis is overrated. I think it would be nice to not have a guy to worry about screwing around on me! And most guys could get more done if they werent so sex obsessed.

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  • Checkmate_King

    Find a girl who's good with her mouth. Suction = boners.

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    • Nickvey

      i had a guy in college sad he could suck me off when i said guys dont turn me on. i guess he knew suction=boners.

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      • Checkmate_King

        Are you saying he sucked you off?

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        • Nickvey

          no. he left crying.

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  • CDmale4fem

    I was gonna say that a lot would depend on your age. If you are say 20, yes a problem. If you are say 65-70-75 then it's probably more of a relief. But if you are 55 or younger then yes it's not normal. UNLESS somebody is hitting the weed pipe these days. That probably makes you more hungry than horny. But yea, maybe you could even go to WebMD online and search it.

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  • buddyroowho

    Check with your doctor, could be physical, could be mental, but it could be serious so I would go

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  • milfrfun

    what about if you had a girl that was all about public sex and foreplay. there has to be that one fetish that can still get you hard. like having a girl like me watch you or go for a ride on a train id let you grope me

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    • Kh

      You still gon let him grope you?🙄

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  • lorrie

    If you are only 20 maybe it is best you see a doctor and be checked out for injury before popping pill that rise your heart rate and blood pressure, also proper diet and been active helps in most cases.

    I am a gp nurse and have seen this problem been fixed in many men with just some lifestyle changes.

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  • AntiArchon

    I envy you.. I wish I'd lose my sex drive already.. Its just a fucking nuisance

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  • Dustyair

    No, that's not normal. I'd go talk to a doc.

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  • Antisas

    You watched too much porno. You probably need snuff to get off.

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    • I only watch it to try and awaken my sleeping monkey, and I keep not succeeding

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's totally normal if you are a geezer.

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  • randypete

    It is your testosterone low see your doctor

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    • My Pete is not randy. Lol, just trying to make humor of my condition, just like my sleeping monkey comment.

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  • janvithebest

    Try to divert your mind or engage in some activities which will keep you busy.
    Try this for atleast couple of months and check your caliber again. Might work if not consult doctor

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  • Ummitsme

    If you are younger than 50, you have a problem. There are pills for this.

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    • I've tried viagra, with not much success. It works just a little, for a very short time, and it's given me side effects like bad nausea and blurred vision

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  • Try giving up the porn for a while. It makes sense that if you see something all the time, it'll "stop working" if you catch my drift.

    Otherwise it could be a medical problem. I'd make a Viagra joke, but nah.

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    • I did read a couple sites that said that internet porn weakens sex drive. But, it also seems that such an incredibly high number of people watch it. On xvideos.com and xxnx.com sites, every individual video states how many people have already viewed that video, and the numbers range anywhere from the 5 figure range to the 7 figure range, over a million people for that one video! And there are I don't know how many thousands of different videos, so that says how many people are actually watching those sites overall. I know that not that many people have low sex drives, so I don't think that I can blame watching pornography for mine.

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      • NobodysNormal

        It's different for everyone. If you watch porn a lot, like hours a day or something, then that could be a problem. If not, it may only be a small part of the problem, or no part at all.

        Do you have depression or take any medications that lower libido, like Zoloft? Or do you have high blood pressure?

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      • NormalPplRwillNeverExsist

        Diabetes along with other types of medical conditions can also cause monkeys to become heavy sleepers. The nurse that commented above didn't mention that there are more issues that can attribute to lazy monkeys than injuries,over working & under paying monkeys, abusing monkeys, becoming porn numb & low testosterone.

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