You need to grow up. You're letting a little girl be threat to you? The kid has separated parents, and has a new sister coming into the picture. I'm sure she is insecure, and worried about being replaced by the new daughter.
I'm rather sorry to hear that you have a child when it sounds like you never grew up.
Whatever the kid is, a bratt or not, she is still a kid. Not one thing that has happened is the child's fault, you have no right to feel uncomfortable or be angry at her. Whether you like it or not, that child is apart of your family as well. No one can force you to like her, but you should never treat her poorely.
Children are innocent and can not be held responsible. Taunting? How old is she. Agreed, kids can taught. Should you let that get under your skin? Only if your age level matches hers.
Some of the above might have sounded mean to you, but seriously have you really examined yourself or taken heed of what you have said?
YOU have no right telling someone they they have no right to feel uncomfortable or angry! What a ridiculous thing to say! She has an 8 month old baby girl and I know from experience how vulnerable new mothers feel, and here she has the person that is supposed to be her partner in this telling her that she (and by extension her daughter) will never be as important to him as his other daughter? She has EVERY right to be angry. It sounds like your boyfriend needs to grow up, not you.
And as for the child, I've been in your position, it's not really the girls fault, remember she ives with a woman who hates you, and will more than likely be trying to poison her against you, which unfortunately you can't do anything about other than be as nice to her as possible, and make sure your boyfriend sees that, so he might at some point speak to her about being nicer to you.
Children are NOT straight up innocent, some people don't seem to understand that if children are rude to people, or obnoxious or knowingly hurtful then they need to be punished, that is exactly the problem in society today, people don't punish their children and we'll end up with a country full of chavs that have never been told they're wrong and think they're above everyone else!
So no, you're not in the wrong, you feel what you feel because of the way you are being treated. This all stems from the ex girlfriend if you think about it, she's the one that's insecure. I don't see that a child that is this vindictive towards you would be healthy to have around your baby, so if you feel better keeping them apart, then that is exactly what you should do because the baby is YOURS, and is your number 1 priority. I think you should go and stay with your parents for a while, or a friend or brother or sister, then maybe not seeing you both every day will make him realise that he is taking you for granted
Is it normal to not accept my boyfriends other daughter?
← View full post
You need to grow up. You're letting a little girl be threat to you? The kid has separated parents, and has a new sister coming into the picture. I'm sure she is insecure, and worried about being replaced by the new daughter.
I'm rather sorry to hear that you have a child when it sounds like you never grew up.
Whatever the kid is, a bratt or not, she is still a kid. Not one thing that has happened is the child's fault, you have no right to feel uncomfortable or be angry at her. Whether you like it or not, that child is apart of your family as well. No one can force you to like her, but you should never treat her poorely.
Children are innocent and can not be held responsible. Taunting? How old is she. Agreed, kids can taught. Should you let that get under your skin? Only if your age level matches hers.
Some of the above might have sounded mean to you, but seriously have you really examined yourself or taken heed of what you have said?
--
Stifler
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
-
kayla33
11 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Oh theirs this show on tlc about CHILDREN WHO KILL PEOPLE great show...shows how evil kids can be.
YOU have no right telling someone they they have no right to feel uncomfortable or angry! What a ridiculous thing to say! She has an 8 month old baby girl and I know from experience how vulnerable new mothers feel, and here she has the person that is supposed to be her partner in this telling her that she (and by extension her daughter) will never be as important to him as his other daughter? She has EVERY right to be angry. It sounds like your boyfriend needs to grow up, not you.
And as for the child, I've been in your position, it's not really the girls fault, remember she ives with a woman who hates you, and will more than likely be trying to poison her against you, which unfortunately you can't do anything about other than be as nice to her as possible, and make sure your boyfriend sees that, so he might at some point speak to her about being nicer to you.
Children are NOT straight up innocent, some people don't seem to understand that if children are rude to people, or obnoxious or knowingly hurtful then they need to be punished, that is exactly the problem in society today, people don't punish their children and we'll end up with a country full of chavs that have never been told they're wrong and think they're above everyone else!
So no, you're not in the wrong, you feel what you feel because of the way you are being treated. This all stems from the ex girlfriend if you think about it, she's the one that's insecure. I don't see that a child that is this vindictive towards you would be healthy to have around your baby, so if you feel better keeping them apart, then that is exactly what you should do because the baby is YOURS, and is your number 1 priority. I think you should go and stay with your parents for a while, or a friend or brother or sister, then maybe not seeing you both every day will make him realise that he is taking you for granted