YOU have no right telling someone they they have no right to feel uncomfortable or angry! What a ridiculous thing to say! She has an 8 month old baby girl and I know from experience how vulnerable new mothers feel, and here she has the person that is supposed to be her partner in this telling her that she (and by extension her daughter) will never be as important to him as his other daughter? She has EVERY right to be angry. It sounds like your boyfriend needs to grow up, not you.
And as for the child, I've been in your position, it's not really the girls fault, remember she ives with a woman who hates you, and will more than likely be trying to poison her against you, which unfortunately you can't do anything about other than be as nice to her as possible, and make sure your boyfriend sees that, so he might at some point speak to her about being nicer to you.
Children are NOT straight up innocent, some people don't seem to understand that if children are rude to people, or obnoxious or knowingly hurtful then they need to be punished, that is exactly the problem in society today, people don't punish their children and we'll end up with a country full of chavs that have never been told they're wrong and think they're above everyone else!
So no, you're not in the wrong, you feel what you feel because of the way you are being treated. This all stems from the ex girlfriend if you think about it, she's the one that's insecure. I don't see that a child that is this vindictive towards you would be healthy to have around your baby, so if you feel better keeping them apart, then that is exactly what you should do because the baby is YOURS, and is your number 1 priority. I think you should go and stay with your parents for a while, or a friend or brother or sister, then maybe not seeing you both every day will make him realise that he is taking you for granted
Is it normal to not accept my boyfriends other daughter?
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YOU have no right telling someone they they have no right to feel uncomfortable or angry! What a ridiculous thing to say! She has an 8 month old baby girl and I know from experience how vulnerable new mothers feel, and here she has the person that is supposed to be her partner in this telling her that she (and by extension her daughter) will never be as important to him as his other daughter? She has EVERY right to be angry. It sounds like your boyfriend needs to grow up, not you.
And as for the child, I've been in your position, it's not really the girls fault, remember she ives with a woman who hates you, and will more than likely be trying to poison her against you, which unfortunately you can't do anything about other than be as nice to her as possible, and make sure your boyfriend sees that, so he might at some point speak to her about being nicer to you.
Children are NOT straight up innocent, some people don't seem to understand that if children are rude to people, or obnoxious or knowingly hurtful then they need to be punished, that is exactly the problem in society today, people don't punish their children and we'll end up with a country full of chavs that have never been told they're wrong and think they're above everyone else!
So no, you're not in the wrong, you feel what you feel because of the way you are being treated. This all stems from the ex girlfriend if you think about it, she's the one that's insecure. I don't see that a child that is this vindictive towards you would be healthy to have around your baby, so if you feel better keeping them apart, then that is exactly what you should do because the baby is YOURS, and is your number 1 priority. I think you should go and stay with your parents for a while, or a friend or brother or sister, then maybe not seeing you both every day will make him realise that he is taking you for granted