Is it normal to never give me compliments?

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I have never gotten a compliment from a guy unless he wanted one of my friend's number. I even had my best guy friend tell me that this girl is hot but that didn't mean i wasn't pretty. That just made me feel ugly. It made me feel like I don't compare to her. I cant even get a guy to notice me and I have taken every piece of advise but I was get tossed aside for another girl. What is wrong with me?

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  • NuclearWinter32
    5 years ago

    Damn, if you stopped being so obsessed with your appearance, life immediately became way easier and could clearly see what's exactly is wrong with you ( if there is anything wrong). Also, you might check for some fancy new dress to get back to normal https://brickandportal.com/shop?query=cute+mini+dresses

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  • LAgirl427
    10 years ago

    Yes nobody EVER compliments me! I have an instagram and a Facebook account and i put on makeup and do my hair real well and post a picture but i never get compliments of people calling me pretty, beautiful or cute and i also get no likes. My older sister who just turned 19 is extremely beautiful, in shape and whenever she posts a Facebook or instagram picture of herself she gets up to 15-100 compliments of her fucking face! It pisses me the fuck off. And even my little cousins who are cute, beautiful get compliments from strangers on the Internet and there only 2 and 5 YEARS OLD!! Its just not fucking fair that two LITTLE GIRLS are way prettier than my fat ugly ass face. My mother gets called pretty by her friends and that's not fair. Guys never hit on me! I've never been kissed and im jealous of out of this world gorgeous, perfect celebrities like ariana Grande, selena gomez or katy perry!! They are so fucking beautiful i want to fucking cry. And even seeing extremely handsome hot guys makes me depressed too. I hacked my sister's Facebook page once because im jealous of all the compliments she gets all the fucking time! Ugh i hate her so much for that reason. The next time she gets compliments im going to punch her in the fucking face!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    @: OP

    "Whatever" you are doing, try doing the opposite and see what happens...
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    BONUS!!

    "Shallow Hal"

    http://www.megavideo.com/?v=YJY34ZPH

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    Being a girl, I want to hear beautiful. Pretty is a good word too. But I don't like it when guys call me hot, sexy, or fine.

    Personally, it makes me feel like I'm sending off slutty vibes.

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    • howaminotmyself
      13 years ago

      Yes beautiful, I completely agree with you.

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    • teardrop06
      13 years ago

      I don't even get called beautiful I'm lucky if I get the word cute. If I do get the compliment it is just because the guy wants my friends number. In my experience, girls do not get notice or even asked out unless the guy thinks the girl is hot

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      • wreckd
        13 years ago

        It may be their confidence. Take note to the women other guys are hitting on. Do they seem to have confidence, revealing clothes, are they acting in a sexual manner?

        These are things I would look out for. If the women are acting in a sexual manner, they're only getting hit on because they're showing that they're easy.

        If they're just outgoing and fun, who doesn't want to be with someone like that?

        People can sense when you're nervous or uncomfortable. Maybe try working on that. I know it's harder than it sounds but that's all I got.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It sounds like you want compliments from guys who are rather shallow and very much pussy hounds. If you want them to compliment you to prove that you are "hot" and "meat for the grind", that is not going to matter much in a few years as you and they mature into real adults. These guys sound like they are very immature and spend a good deal of their time trying to hookup with sexually enticing females so that they can use her sexually and get kudos from their male friends for doing so. Why, on Earth do you care what an UTTER moron like this "thinks" anyway. Find an intelligent, mature male who will give you real compliments that involve how smart you are and what a good person you are. As Judge Judy states: "Beauty fades, dumb is forever."

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    • teardrop06
      13 years ago

      I have heard this from every guy that I have ever meant. I have even heard this from the guys that my friends even think I look hotter then them. These are my friends that are girls. This is not even me trying. I could be at the beach, a store, restaurant or club and this always happen. Plus, every girl want to know they are attractive. I would love for once for a guy to say im hot because guys like girls like this. It makes a girl feel wanted. When you just here pretty that means you are just another girl in the crowd.

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        Just curious... What do these guys look like? Oftentimes, you have these rather plain looking males rating females and females never think to appraise the appraiser. If some unattractive male is communicating to you that you are not attractive or desirable, so what? I am a feminist and I refuse to put up with patriarchal bullshit. Some women just wanna be daddy's lil' girl. That is their life's goal: to seek and to acquire the approval of men. Then there are women who wanna be kick ass. That would be me.

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        I don't have a hard time getting the attention of men that I want to get to know better. It has to do with self confidence and being your own person versus being a man's sock puppet of "luv".

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        • teardrop06
          13 years ago

          actually i have very high self confidence. I have a friend that has lower self confidence then me but she always gets guys because how she looks. She has even emitted this to me. I always got pushed aside from her. she is a twig and I am the opposite.

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  • teardrop06
    13 years ago

    I don't try to look for it. I just go out and have fun. I do flirt a lot but I still get bi passed for the hot girl then have to hear about her the whole night.

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    • DefinitelyNotNormal89
      13 years ago

      Is the hot girl a friend? When you're out men are looking for one thing really, you need to get close to someone first I suppose

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      • teardrop06
        13 years ago

        I have done that too and I still get bi passed. There is a guy right now that I am really close too but doesn't even notice me unless there is no hot girls there.

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  • teardrop06
    13 years ago

    I am 24

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    • DefinitelyNotNormal89
      13 years ago

      Maybe it's your confidence then? Are you flirty at all? You don't have to be good looking to be attractive and confidence is really attractive.
      If you have a great personality then you will definitely find someone, you wont be single forever and there maybe someone out there who likes you now, maybe he don't think you like him or he's just shy. I think if you look for love you never find it, just try your hardest to not concentrate on it and be happy with your life, hopefully everything else will fall into place for you

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  • teardrop06
    13 years ago

    I can get any guy to talk to me and say I'm cool. But I can never get a guy to say you are hot and ask me out.

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    • DefinitelyNotNormal89
      13 years ago

      How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

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  • Evelyn27
    13 years ago

    I am the bearded lady. And the best way I have to deal with people is to just brazen it out.
    I look people in the eyes when I am in public, and I just say what I think...no frontal lobe filter. And people seem to respond well.
    I guess what i am trying to say is be who you are and feel no shame.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    You may have more personality then these girls but you may not have the confidence to reflect it.
    I don't think I'm pretty at all(my self esteem is awful), infact I look a little insane but I do get attention from guys. I have a very mad, unpredictable personality and people seem to love me for it.
    I think it's all to do with how you portray yourself. You may be pretty but you may need your personality to kick in so people see it, you've just gotta be yourself around people n throw yourself out there.
    I've also been told I'm extremely difficult to compliment as I brush everything away, that could be a reason people don't compliment you?

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    • teardrop06
      13 years ago

      Done that too. Guys say I am the coolest girl they ever met but they still don't look at me at that way.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    maybe wear bight clothes

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      *bright

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      • lordofopinions
        5 years ago

        You don't have to create a separate post for a spelling error. There is an edit button under the window. The text is very small but it's there.

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  • teardrop06
    13 years ago

    Thanks for the reply. It just bothers me because I will have more personality than these girls and I still get bi passed. It gets real frustrating.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Nothing is wrong with you, all your friends may have more presence than you do. Sometimes uglier people can look better simply because they are interesting. I've been told I'm cute/fine whatever, but I never get asked out because I'm a geeky recluse.

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  • squirrelgirl
    13 years ago

    It's OK, I never get complimented on my appearance either.

    On another forum I go to, there are a couple of beautiful girls who use/have used their photos as avatars, and the men of the website practically worship them.

    Whenever I have posted a picture of myself, no one has said anything about my appearance. And of course, I never get complimented/hit on by guys in real life either.

    I don't think I'm ugly, so I don't understand what the problem could be.

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    • teardrop06
      13 years ago

      I wish I knew too. That is why I am asking this question because it does not matter what I do nothing wrongs. And i heard supposedly I'm pretty but when this type of stuff happens your whole life it don't feel that way.

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