Is it normal to never get noticed by guys

Well recently I have been feeling extremely frustrated by the fact that I have never had a boyfriend. It's like I am invisible to guys. It's not like I'm not confident I am able to smile and say hi to guys, but they never respond and I am not willing to go up and to talk to someone who won't even make eye contact with me. Basically I want to know what is it about me that puts guys off. I am 21 years old and have never even been on a date with a guy. Should I just chalk it up to not being physically attractive enough and give up or is there any chance of me meeting someone ?

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  • almostunreadable

    Also if you're small girl try adding some pounds.

    Lol.

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  • I'm also ugly,stink like shit,and probably stupid and have no money just like you,so we both have the same problem...just don't worry about it already!

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  • kneegnaw

    Too much time is wasted being shy.

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  • Don't try to change yourself most men are shallow

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Flash your tits.

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  • I have always felt invisible too! It has seriously stumped and confused me all my life. I am not ugly, I am smart, kind of funny, nice, and get ZERO guy attention. No one. Except for the weirdos ya know?

    I am quiet and have never really fit in. No matter where I go I have never fit in, like school There has always been me on the outside looking at the world going on around me, more of like an observer. I think this makes me invisible to the general viewer.

    I joined the high school's science club a few years ago. It was there where people started actually noticing my existence, and that I actually had interesting things to say, and I finally found a place where I fit in, and it was awesome.

    There I found my boyfriend!

    What I meant to say in this post: Just be yourself. Being invisible to the general male population can be a gift. Anyone worth your love will be able to spot you from a mile away

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  • bishophollett

    hey honey, your 21 years old and trust me when I tell you that you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, no hurry 4 dumb old boys. I am 36 years old if you want a date? I will be more than happy to take you out, with my wife and we will show you what its all about wink, wink

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  • littlelambs

    I appreciate your input, but I do groom myself daily and I do have self confidence but it seems as though that does not matter. I have done all of the things you have mentioned but nothing has changed for me. I am 22 now and just feel like this cycle will never change. I try my best to remain hopeful but it has really changed the way I view guys. I am rarely attracted to men and have little to no interest in guys anymore. I am not sure how long this will last but I hope that it ends soon.

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  • Whitneyhouston

    find hobbies you enjoy follow those and guys who share interests will come with the territory. Thus easing the tension on starting conversations. Getting guys attention has nothing to do with being physically unnattractive. Well, unless you have your tits fallin out all over the place.. just be positive, smile, friendly, and approachable. Also dress like you care about life, no one likes a slob, and play up your fav facial feature, eyes usually work best;) but the number one thing that EVERYONE is attracted to wether it be a friend or a lover, is self confidence.

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  • Become a slut, then they'll notice u

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  • Become a sl

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  • ChuckHurst

    Are you attractive? Nerdy? Overweight? Handicapped? Annoying habits in public, like constantly chewing on your fingernails 'cause your nervous around people?

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  • You may need to do more than make eye contact & smile. And aren't you part of mixed groups where its a bit safer to make conversation?

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  • Burrito_Dick

    you cant find no one cause you are on here posting bull shit like this. meet a guy online like 50% of the world has remember there will always be desperate men so you have a chance.

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  • You will find someone, don't try to impress people. And yes just go up to a guy

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    lol you won't bother to try and start a conversation yet wonder why you're lonely? Take some GodDamn initiative this isnt the 1950's where you wait for prince for charming to come. Everybody's doing something these days and can't waste time on people that just give a friendly smile with nothing behind it, its all go go go these days

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  • gbulldawg5

    If your a big girl, try losing some pounds.

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    • supaflyafro

      dats kinda rude dude. there are guys who like big girls regardless anyway but dats not wut im here to talk about.

      dont ever say ur gonna give up cuz EVERY1 has a chance at meeting sum1 they like and date sumtime in their life. this may not be 100% true but its definitely 99% true. trust me i know

      i say this becuz condi was never married and have no children so think about it. wut are the chances of this happening to u?

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