You are pretty young and you need to keep in perspective to not base your life around a guy, yes your in love, but you need to still be your own person and have 'your own' dreams that you want to pursue! Like maybe a night class or college!
Also a job would really help and remember thing are going to be a lot different with both of you living together, you wont have your own personal space like before because you're going to be in his families house!
I actually gave up everything for a guy. Was with him for 2 years. My family moved to the Usa and I decided to stay home in northern Ireland with him 'because I was in love'! And he promised to someday go to Usa and do all these wonderful things. But that was all talk. He actually ended up breaking my heart and telling me he didn't love me anymore.
After that I vowed to never base my life around a guy and I have stuck to that promise!
I actually met my boyfriend 5 months ago (my current) he's from northern Ireland and moved to Usa 3 months ago. Were doing long-distance and actually more in love than we were before, im going back to northern Ireland in October and staying for a month, and he's booked his ticket to come see me at christmas and new years for 3 weeks. (hes 18 and im 20)
And recently we had a talk about me always wanting to go to to japan and doing a program teaching kids english and he really wants to go with me because i never wanted to go alone.
so the thing im trying to tell you is that your both soooo young! and i would suggest for you to invest in something you personally wanna do like maybe university, traveling, a year with him in another country being an international student! and if he loves you enough he will follow you not matter what. and yous both can still be young and 'experience life'. and the living together and working at that age and not fulfilling your dreams wont be the healthiest option. might be asking you to grow up to fast and leave out all the fun stuff in life!
Is it normal to move in with your boyfriend at the age of 18?
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You are pretty young and you need to keep in perspective to not base your life around a guy, yes your in love, but you need to still be your own person and have 'your own' dreams that you want to pursue! Like maybe a night class or college!
Also a job would really help and remember thing are going to be a lot different with both of you living together, you wont have your own personal space like before because you're going to be in his families house!
I actually gave up everything for a guy. Was with him for 2 years. My family moved to the Usa and I decided to stay home in northern Ireland with him 'because I was in love'! And he promised to someday go to Usa and do all these wonderful things. But that was all talk. He actually ended up breaking my heart and telling me he didn't love me anymore.
After that I vowed to never base my life around a guy and I have stuck to that promise!
I actually met my boyfriend 5 months ago (my current) he's from northern Ireland and moved to Usa 3 months ago. Were doing long-distance and actually more in love than we were before, im going back to northern Ireland in October and staying for a month, and he's booked his ticket to come see me at christmas and new years for 3 weeks. (hes 18 and im 20)
And recently we had a talk about me always wanting to go to to japan and doing a program teaching kids english and he really wants to go with me because i never wanted to go alone.
so the thing im trying to tell you is that your both soooo young! and i would suggest for you to invest in something you personally wanna do like maybe university, traveling, a year with him in another country being an international student! and if he loves you enough he will follow you not matter what. and yous both can still be young and 'experience life'. and the living together and working at that age and not fulfilling your dreams wont be the healthiest option. might be asking you to grow up to fast and leave out all the fun stuff in life!
sooo good luck
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