I am having the same problem with my new boy friend. My ex and I shared a great sexual bond, I was with him for 3 years and was engaged to be married. I was so sure for once in my life that I want to be with him till death do us apart and all. But fate had other plans for me so we broke up. I realized later that i was blinded by my hopes and dreams not to see what and who he really was. My present boy friend is a sweetheart and we have been together for 8 months now and i started to realize he is a better man than my ex. Now like runner girl I also think about my ex during sex or even sometimes almost call his name..lol , but the good thing is I am guilt free person. My current bf is well endowed and we is wild in bed. It took me a little time before i knew the real trouble, when we (most women i guess)surrender to someone so completely sexually it hits us hard a change of a charge and the loyalties to be switched. I focused on the best aspects of my bf and also told him how I am still thinking of him off and on without wanting him at all. He understood or just pretended to which made me respect him even more and sexually accept him. Now we try loads of different things in sex which he is great at and i think of my ex who was not great at some of experimentation or selfish and i feel blessed. so my advice don't feel guilty find the sexy thing about your husband and explore, you can even ask him to try the same thing as your ex...I did and he turned out to be better at it then my ex. I find myself thinking of my ex less during sex or otherwise now.
Is it normal to miss your ex when having sex with your husband?!
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I am having the same problem with my new boy friend. My ex and I shared a great sexual bond, I was with him for 3 years and was engaged to be married. I was so sure for once in my life that I want to be with him till death do us apart and all. But fate had other plans for me so we broke up. I realized later that i was blinded by my hopes and dreams not to see what and who he really was. My present boy friend is a sweetheart and we have been together for 8 months now and i started to realize he is a better man than my ex. Now like runner girl I also think about my ex during sex or even sometimes almost call his name..lol , but the good thing is I am guilt free person. My current bf is well endowed and we is wild in bed. It took me a little time before i knew the real trouble, when we (most women i guess)surrender to someone so completely sexually it hits us hard a change of a charge and the loyalties to be switched. I focused on the best aspects of my bf and also told him how I am still thinking of him off and on without wanting him at all. He understood or just pretended to which made me respect him even more and sexually accept him. Now we try loads of different things in sex which he is great at and i think of my ex who was not great at some of experimentation or selfish and i feel blessed. so my advice don't feel guilty find the sexy thing about your husband and explore, you can even ask him to try the same thing as your ex...I did and he turned out to be better at it then my ex. I find myself thinking of my ex less during sex or otherwise now.