Is it normal to miss an ex-girlfriend from jr. high? tell her?

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We dated when we were just kids.. Jr. High. At that time she was the first girl I had actually ever cared about... for a while I thought I loved her. Lasted a for a while but I was too young to handle a relationship. It ended fairly peacefully, she cried a little. We went on to graduate from the same high school. After that, I never saw her again. Here I am at 24 years of age and I don't think I ever really stopped thinking, or forgot about her.

Just for the heck of it I tried searching her on facebook. No luck, BUT I found her younger sister, who I remembered vaguely. I sent her a message - basically saying I knew her sister back in school and was trying to find her email address or something.

Mistake? Probably considering afterwards I looked at the younger sister's profile pics and it's definitely her at her older sister's (The one I'm interested in) BRIDAL shower. Ouch... and fail.

Anyways, so now what happens if she actually emails me back? Should I tell her how I feel?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    No you don't tell her how you feel. She is married.

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  • one-bar-brad
    13 years ago | pl

    lol, my friend started making fun of me cause my cell phone dropped calls all the time. got a new phone, but the name stuck

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  • escape_artist
    13 years ago | pl

    okay brad, in that case, how did you get your online name? cause if it's not you, someone else has your name on xbox, lol

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  • one-bar-brad
    13 years ago | pl

    escape_artist no, I dont waste my time on that game. i also suck at it too, lol

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  • escape_artist
    13 years ago | pl

    Yo, one-bar-brad
    do you play Modern Warfare? if so, I think I've played with you.

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  • one-bar-brad
    13 years ago | pl

    dude, Corb11 makes a strong case assuming you have 30 mill (or that your current house is worth that much), but I gotta go with everyone else and say bail on that plan. She's funneling someone else's hog now, ya gotta let this fish swim away. But didn't you mention a younger sister? ;) Hang on, I'm re-reading... and now I'm sensing some extra hesitation on your part. Are you already dating someone else?

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    • Casual_Swift
      13 years ago | pl

      One Bar Brad... Thanks for the advice. I DO have a girlfriend. How'd you guess that?

      Something else kinda freaky... I saw you playing MW2 a while back. You had 1 red bar and were trying to quick scope. It's really freaking me out that you might be the same person.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Go to her, find her and sweep her off her feet:)<3 sell your house and get a loan, buy a island in the Bahamas for approx. 30 million, spend your golden years traveling the world. Destiny is calling you my friend...

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago | pl

    Yea I wouldn't tell her. She has someone in her life now they r married. Just be friends

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  • MiKeY_G
    13 years ago | pl

    If she does reply you should just say hi and " just" keep it at a good friendship level.

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  • Laubotje
    13 years ago | pl

    I had the same thing, I was kind of hoping she'd miss me the same way like I did, but apparently she didn't, I hope it doesn't end up the same with you man, I really do.

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