It depends how much you like her. I will sometimes back off (kind of like you did) if there's competition and it'd cause problems. But if you really like someone, you have to fight for her. You may not have blown your chance completely but if you want to turn this around you have to act quickly and decisively and whatever you do has to have impact.
I'll be honest with you, though - you haven't helped your chances.
Is it normal to mess up this bad?
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It depends how much you like her. I will sometimes back off (kind of like you did) if there's competition and it'd cause problems. But if you really like someone, you have to fight for her. You may not have blown your chance completely but if you want to turn this around you have to act quickly and decisively and whatever you do has to have impact.
I'll be honest with you, though - you haven't helped your chances.