Is it normal to masturbate, even though you have a hot girlfriend?

I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now, all my friends are extremely jealous, I'm not anything special, just a lucky guy. We have sex on the daily basis, but as time passed I've become less aroused by her sexual appeal, I now find myself watching porn in secrecy and beating my meat on my own while coming up with lame excuses of why I can't have sex with her today. Its getting bad to the point where were having sex once a week and I'm not able to cum, she certainly still enjoys it. I've I thought about moving on to a different girl, but find it pretty hard to do as I've become attached to this girl and don't know a way out. I don't even know if there is a way that I can jump start our sex life again.

Reading through all this, would you say this is normal, or am I psychologically f**ked on the head?

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  • it's typical, you should dump her if youre really that shallow

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  • Try not looking at porn and see what happens after a few days. I bet that if you stopped the porn and the masturbation that you would be attracted again.

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  • Ya dude even a hot girlfriend wont do me as many times as id love to do it hot or not no woman can satisfy a mans need to bust a nut

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  • Why don't you lay off the porn and see how you actually feel about her.

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  • i have a hot bf and
    am a lady and cannot stop watching pregnancy hardcore porn and having a good masturbate to it all.
    Its gotten to the point where I had to buy (and now wear) a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite to do the job it fells so much better than stuffing myself and the best thing I brought. I love wearing it while watching pregnancy hardcore porn or stuff re pregnancy on TV or YouTube then masturbate rubbing a bath towel in-between my fanny and crossing my legs, when no one is around. Has anyone else brought one of these practise pregnant belly suite? I am thinking of wearing my suite one day around my village to see if any looks at me and to see how much turned on I get.

    I too cannot see women, friends, family members or teachers pregnant in real life without being wet below and sexily aroused.I believe I would have to see something about pregnancy to get me in the mood before sex God I am so turned on now I need to go masturbate good and hard, as I am very wet too. View my story to read more!

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  • It has gotten to the point where I had to buy a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite which I had to give up in March 2013, since my one and only bf found it and took to a charity shop. However I never really said that I had brought it or why. I feel empty without it.

    I loved to still act very very fat and pregnant too wearing tight clothes (sometimes I wear an old swimming suite stuffed to the max) and a very tight belt. It does not feel the same anymore, and does not feel like I am carrying a baby.

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  • Watch porn together, try different things tell her about your fantasies or fetishes if you have any, jus be an animal and get loud and try new stuff get her to talk dirrty to you, and maybe you are over masterbating lay off the porn for a week. Remember if your not giving her what she needs she'll get it some where else

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  • maybe she is not all that hot. If she doesn't arouse you, there might just not be chemistry

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  • Viagra.

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  • Think back to a time when you would really get off with her. Have things changed signifigantly in that time? Do you and your gf have open communications about the things? If not, bottled up unresolved issues can derail you from "getting there" with her. Also, guys tend to get bored by "the same old thing" and that desire for "new conquests" is present in a lot of guys. I think you are very normal.

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  • Hey buddy it's very much normal as the virgin guy said u've over done it and now it seem worth less there is a saying "good thing looses it's value very soon" so jus take it easy man relax.

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  • Here's my advise.
    Try not to masturbate, let your body regain more... Um... Seaman.
    But maybe you over did it and then the attractivness you had on her decreased because you've seen the body so much.
    I'm just giving my oppinion, but I'm still a virgin, so don't take my advice.

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  • I'm actually going through the exact same thing. We've been together for a year on 9/21...and its been like this for a while. I'd say its normal, but I question myself much like you are lol. I'd have to say its the "thrill of the hunt" theory like adrian007 said. Because I'm looking at other girls thinking the same stuff. I care about her but its almost...boring now.

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  • If you break up, you will start over where you left off. Something your denying, meaning your simply not aware of a feeling, or feelings. Find out what's really up with her being inattractive to you for no apparent reason. May have to get honest with yourself to the point that it hurts. Uou will feel better afterwards.

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  • Perhaps you're just bored with the idea.
    You get a rise out of doing it behind her back.
    Maybe she doesn't like it when you masturbate, and so you try to do it behind her back.
    It's normal.

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  • guys sex it's not everything important in a relationship but not important to dump her if you really lover her show it be a romantic and she will come back to your bed, everybody uses that trick, i didn't and my 2 years relationship ended very very bad she even fall for my friend LOL so brotha if you dont want to lose her put more attencion expressing what u fell

    hope it works for ya

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  • seriously... you need to tie her up or something. Forget about same-old "vanilla" sex and make the action about getting what u want (some of the time). Experiment with her, maybe watch some porn together...

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  • Well, you can start by thinking about why exactly you are no longer aroused by her. Is it because now that you have her, the thrill of the chase has gone?

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  • Take her to a strip club. My wife and I did it and her getting lap dances heated up our sex lives extremely.

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