Is it normal to make yourself fall out of love subconciously?

There was this girl who I loved. She was not stunning, but I loved her for who she was. But she told her friend, who ridiculed me about it, and I made myself ignore her for some reason.

Yes it is. 24
No it's not. 11
I don't know. 18
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Comments ( 12 )
  • pambambam

    you consiouly chose to do it.
    Good Job!!

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  • cookiesaregreat

    life'll be much easier if I could do that.

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  • EveningOwl

    hmm.. loaded question. all circumstancial.

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  • filledehula

    Wow, story of my life D:

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    that's normal.

    you can train yourself out of feelings for someone

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    • joybird

      Wish I could!

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        What you need to try doing is... every time you find yourself thinking about that person, bring up something else.

        It may take time but part of getting over someone involves distracting yourself so you can separate your feelings out.

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        • joybird

          I'll try that. But just as soon as I withdraw from him, he comes towards me - flippin' typical!

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          • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

            ah... yeah that can be a factor.

            you may have to get in touch with your inner evil side and tell him to screw off ;)

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  • crazyarab

    U can't fall out of love like that , nd if u think u can then that's not love so just leave her

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  • NothingxCrazy

    Conflicting emotions. Just stop over thinking things and just go with it.

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  • :)BABYDOLL:)

    Its called LUST....

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