Is it normal to love your bestfriend?

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I've Known My Bestfriend "K" For 4 Years. Hes that one person i can tell anything and everything. About, 1 year ago he had to move to arizona for a job, he just moved back. I Thought he wasnt going to come back, & i had feelings for him. So, i moved on. But now that he moved back, all those feelings came back. & those feelings ruined my relationship with this guy i was dating for 2 monthes. & "K" and ive been hanging out Alot. On new years i was with him, and some friends. We went to the new years eve party together but as friends. It was the count down, & he kissed me, after that it went on from then. If you know what i mean, ever since then it has brought us closer. We've gone on several dates, hes met my family, and i love him. But, i've asked him how he feels about me, & he tells me "you know "N" i love you like a friend, & i like hanging out with you, but i dont want to jepordize our friendship. Im very confused now, because everything was perfectly fine, we havnt talked in 3 monthes, & i still love him.

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  • scary_back_fat
    11 years ago

    i know 'k' too, but he's usually asleep

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  • Nataliahpk1
    12 years ago

    Yeahh., We have actually been talking like once in a while, & we kinda talk at school. But, it seems so akward. But just this recent weekend he asked me if i'd like to go ice skating.

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  • Pain
    12 years ago

    If he is interested in you he won't show it maybe..but you can just continue talking to him and if he really is into you he will make the first step. I've also fallen in love with my best friend but i'm a fail in love though..my life is a long annoying story. Though he will show you some signs and you must always be careful with them.

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  • 011assassin
    12 years ago

    Dont pressure him, males can be just as stressed as women when it comes to asking out, if he added friendship he isnt ready yet, keep talking to him, you're more likely to lose someone if you ignore them then if you asked a question.

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