Is it normal to love someone you barely know?

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I remember this girl 'I was into' back when I was a little kid (10-ish). I really liked her, but nothing happened between us we were just friends, anyways my feelings disappeared over time. When I turned 18 my school had an 'emotional evening' where we learnt about one personal feelings to bring us closer as a year group. During this we were hypnotized and told to find what was ours which we had lost which was of emotional significance, the leader of the event most people find what they had lost after this event. I remember 'finding that girl (in an 'angelic' form').' This is where my emotions resurfaced and it freaked me out so i never asked any questions about it to the hypnotiser. I haven't made any contact with this girl since then, I haven't been able to consider any other girl than her. It's not like I'm stalking her I'm avoiding her.
Any advice welcomed and cheers for reading.

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  • ReginaFalange
    8 years ago | pl

    I don't think you can "love" her. You certainly have a really fond memory of her.

    Logically speaking, hypnosis brought up a beautiful memory from your childhood. Hypnosis is not meant to tell you the future, only wants already in your head.

    I think you have two options:
    1. You could try to find her and find out if you like each other and then you could:
    - become a couple (one with a totally sweet story to tell about how you met).
    - become really good friends
    - find out she's not a very nice person or at least not someone interesting for you

    2. You could avoid contacting her and just keep the memory exactly as you want it to be.

    Just Keep in mind people usually regret the things they didn't do.
    (also, it would be nice if you tell us what happened next)

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    • Bradical
      8 years ago | pl

      Nothing really.
      I was a lot younger when I wrote this post, I never really grasped the nostalgia concept. I realised she changed a lot from when we were younger (obviously). I don't think I will ever peruse this further (almost certain).

      If you want to talk about anything shoot, but if you're digging for happy ending you should search elsewhere.

      Cheers
      Bradley

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  • Dizzee
    12 years ago | pl

    This is sweet. Me and this guy (I was like... in 2nd or 3rd grade), we used to make up stories about climbing Mount Everest and what not. All of the kids believed us. He was my first crush I ever had and I oddly remember his face, but not his name.
    However, I can't really help you on this one. Perhaps you should've asked the hypnotist? Or perhaps it's your subconscious mind that remembers her and since she was a friend of yours you secretly wanted to meet her again and the hypnotist just brought that out to your conscious mind? That's all I could think of.

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    • Bradical
      12 years ago | pl

      Yeah i have thought about asking him, but I'm hesitant to do so. I think it could be because I don't want to know what it means. I'm not sure if it's I'm scared he will say that she is for me or that she isn't. It sounds stupid, but I prefer to live in 'the what if' rather than face reality at the moment.

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      • Dizzee
        12 years ago | pl

        What if's are really nice to think about so it's understandable.

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