You live in different cities? Maybe that's the problem. You might be asking to much of him at the moment. Just because he doesn't show the right level of affection to appease you, doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. I do t know the guy, but I sounds like he is just the average douche bag that has a problem saying how they feel because 'men don't cry' or what ever.
Everything you just described sounds familiar to my ears. He does come off as a douche bag because he doesn't want to or know how to express his feelings yet comes off like he is into me. And yeah we live in different cities and its not like we're gonna move for each other especially cause its not official and cause we have common sense. He did say the other day when I confronted him about something that what do I expect when we only get to see each other every once in a while (we're seeing each other like every 3 weeks).
So you're saying I should just chill out and trust everything he tells me and does for me cause its coming from a genuine place? That's just how most guys are and its not really their fault? And if he doesn't want to or know how to express himself then I should just accept it because at the end of the day, he is genuinely into me and I shouldn't take it personal?
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You live in different cities? Maybe that's the problem. You might be asking to much of him at the moment. Just because he doesn't show the right level of affection to appease you, doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. I do t know the guy, but I sounds like he is just the average douche bag that has a problem saying how they feel because 'men don't cry' or what ever.
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Everything you just described sounds familiar to my ears. He does come off as a douche bag because he doesn't want to or know how to express his feelings yet comes off like he is into me. And yeah we live in different cities and its not like we're gonna move for each other especially cause its not official and cause we have common sense. He did say the other day when I confronted him about something that what do I expect when we only get to see each other every once in a while (we're seeing each other like every 3 weeks).
So you're saying I should just chill out and trust everything he tells me and does for me cause its coming from a genuine place? That's just how most guys are and its not really their fault? And if he doesn't want to or know how to express himself then I should just accept it because at the end of the day, he is genuinely into me and I shouldn't take it personal?