Most guys wouldn't get this many chances. Maybe he's not ready to be the guy you want him to be. As for next steps...beats me. You can leave him for good and find a more serious guy or...wait.
He's not and he's been honest with me. He told me that right now at 27 years old he has own goals he wants to accomplish first before he settles down. And okay I rather wait with him and go with the flow than to completely leave him. He says he wants to stay in touch so he doesn't want to get rid of me either. I guess what I want now is just his commitment and intimacy to talk to me without talking to anyone else even if we're not together officially. And he said okay he has chosen to not talk to anyone else and he won't. I guess my biggest fear now is just losing him and losing the future I saw because of whats happening right now in the present.
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Most guys wouldn't get this many chances. Maybe he's not ready to be the guy you want him to be. As for next steps...beats me. You can leave him for good and find a more serious guy or...wait.
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He's not and he's been honest with me. He told me that right now at 27 years old he has own goals he wants to accomplish first before he settles down. And okay I rather wait with him and go with the flow than to completely leave him. He says he wants to stay in touch so he doesn't want to get rid of me either. I guess what I want now is just his commitment and intimacy to talk to me without talking to anyone else even if we're not together officially. And he said okay he has chosen to not talk to anyone else and he won't. I guess my biggest fear now is just losing him and losing the future I saw because of whats happening right now in the present.