Ya we have given each other space three times and all three times he's the one to contact me. When I moved back home, I was ready to move on cause I didn't expect him to stay in touch as much as I wanted him to. I was ready to start a new chapter and who ends up making the effort to stay in touch and see each other? Him. He drove all the way here to come see me. And even before then he was making the effort to keep talking to me. He does these things but his attitude and ways suck. There have been so many times where I feel like he's trying to hide the fact that he's involved w me. He just wants his cake and eat it too but no its all or nothing I told him and he said sorry he won't have his cake but he doesn't change.
Most guys wouldn't get this many chances. Maybe he's not ready to be the guy you want him to be. As for next steps...beats me. You can leave him for good and find a more serious guy or...wait.
He's not and he's been honest with me. He told me that right now at 27 years old he has own goals he wants to accomplish first before he settles down. And okay I rather wait with him and go with the flow than to completely leave him. He says he wants to stay in touch so he doesn't want to get rid of me either. I guess what I want now is just his commitment and intimacy to talk to me without talking to anyone else even if we're not together officially. And he said okay he has chosen to not talk to anyone else and he won't. I guess my biggest fear now is just losing him and losing the future I saw because of whats happening right now in the present.
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Ya we have given each other space three times and all three times he's the one to contact me. When I moved back home, I was ready to move on cause I didn't expect him to stay in touch as much as I wanted him to. I was ready to start a new chapter and who ends up making the effort to stay in touch and see each other? Him. He drove all the way here to come see me. And even before then he was making the effort to keep talking to me. He does these things but his attitude and ways suck. There have been so many times where I feel like he's trying to hide the fact that he's involved w me. He just wants his cake and eat it too but no its all or nothing I told him and he said sorry he won't have his cake but he doesn't change.
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Most guys wouldn't get this many chances. Maybe he's not ready to be the guy you want him to be. As for next steps...beats me. You can leave him for good and find a more serious guy or...wait.
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He's not and he's been honest with me. He told me that right now at 27 years old he has own goals he wants to accomplish first before he settles down. And okay I rather wait with him and go with the flow than to completely leave him. He says he wants to stay in touch so he doesn't want to get rid of me either. I guess what I want now is just his commitment and intimacy to talk to me without talking to anyone else even if we're not together officially. And he said okay he has chosen to not talk to anyone else and he won't. I guess my biggest fear now is just losing him and losing the future I saw because of whats happening right now in the present.