I dumped my first girlfriend because I wanted to see what else was out there and boy am I glad I did. I wouldn't have had to dump her if she wasnt so possesive and jelous. She was trying to keep my dick all to herself. but it was my fault for setting the wrong expectation from the beginning. I was programmed into the old christian paradigm.
a few relationships later and now Im lucky enough to have a beutiful girlfriend who allows me to sleep with other women as long as its safe sex. ofcourse she isnt too thrilled about it but she knows that if she complains about it Im out the door, not as a way of manipulating her, but rather because I refuse to be told what I can and cant do with my own life.
Anyway the relationship is going great for her and me for over 3 years now, so turns out it's not a big deal if you handle it right. takes some balls but if your woman likes the way your making her feel, its fine. Just make it clear from the beginning, and keep mentioning that you are not manogomous. You might find that it turns her on.
Is it normal to love someone but still sleep around?
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i agree.
if someone dumped me just to sleep around (or "sow" oats) then... he's not worth taking back no matter how much he says he loves me.
why? Because what you SAY doesn't matter if you don't act like you mean it
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I dumped my first girlfriend because I wanted to see what else was out there and boy am I glad I did. I wouldn't have had to dump her if she wasnt so possesive and jelous. She was trying to keep my dick all to herself. but it was my fault for setting the wrong expectation from the beginning. I was programmed into the old christian paradigm.
a few relationships later and now Im lucky enough to have a beutiful girlfriend who allows me to sleep with other women as long as its safe sex. ofcourse she isnt too thrilled about it but she knows that if she complains about it Im out the door, not as a way of manipulating her, but rather because I refuse to be told what I can and cant do with my own life.
Anyway the relationship is going great for her and me for over 3 years now, so turns out it's not a big deal if you handle it right. takes some balls but if your woman likes the way your making her feel, its fine. Just make it clear from the beginning, and keep mentioning that you are not manogomous. You might find that it turns her on.
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There's a difference.
You have an agreement WITH your GF. Therefore in your relationship it isn't cheating.