Is it normal to love him like that?

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i love my ex boyfriend very much,i cant stop thinking about him and i dont think i can love any other guy as much as i love him and he knows how much i love him but he hurts me so badly,i am so miserable,he is emotionaly abusing me,he does not treat me like his girlfriend,we fought everytime with words but that does not make me love him any less,i try so hard to forget about him and let it go but it is so difficult,we broke up last year and he always convinced me to get back with him after he realised his mistakes but within a week he never called me back again and thats when i realised that he was lieying when he told me that he still loves me cause i can see through his actions,even when he sees me around he just ignores me and passes as if there is nothing wrong between us,i need help cuase at times i cry a lot because i truely deeply loves him and he does not cares about how i feel,how can i let it go?

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  • follow_me_down
    13 years ago | pl

    You listed everything you need to concentrate on about him. Heres a steadfast way to let go:

    Cut him off from your life..block him on your phone/all outlets of communication.

    Concentrate on all the hateful, cruel, ignorant or just plain mean things he did to you. Replace these actions with anything he ever did that was nice every time you feel like caving and calling him.

    Learn to love yourself. You cannot seek approval from him. He is abusing you. Treat yourself to things you love to do. Go out with friends, do something new everyday.

    Find a girl friend, guy friend, family member etc that you can call at those moments when you are at your weakest.

    Remind yourself of this: Why on earth do you need his drama in your life? You existed without him before..and can do it again.

    I promise you in this case, time can heal all wounds. You just have to stick to it. Soon you will wonder what you ever saw in him.

    Good luck.

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  • harrypotterdork22
    13 years ago | pl

    well first of all, love doesnt hurt. its not supposed to. wouldnt you rather much be in a healthy, good relationship with a guy that cares about you and will do anything for your happiness? if u want, you can go to a therapist and get help because you may be depressed. even though youre so in love, this is bad for you. how can u let someone who doesnt care about you affect you this way? people fall in and out of love. youre blinded my his loe and unable to see how much better your life is without him.

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  • FANTABULOUS
    9 years ago | pl

    LOVEY. IT IS ALWAYS SAID THAT ONE SHOULDN'T TRY HARD TO FORGET ABOUT HIS OR HER EX. THE GUY DOES NOT DESERVE YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR HIM. YOU DESERVE THE BEST. YOU WILL FIND MR RIGHT ONE DAY. JUST KEEP HOPING. BEST OF LUCK!

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago | pl

    he's a BITCH!!! he needs to die!

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  • slytheringirl
    12 years ago | pl

    I know it's hard but you need to find a way to move on. You will find someone who you fall in love with so deeply that you laugh at the thought of this guy. I know I did.

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