It's hard to believe I am being manipulated cause I do believe he is a good guy. He just has these bad traits that I was willing to accept and improve with him. But since he is not putting any effort then I won't either. I kind of wish he was a bad guy from the start so it would be a lot easier to believe I am being manipulated and it would be easier to walk away.
He recently apologized though after I told him what hes been doing to me. It felt good to hear him say that because it takes a lot for him to apologize so I feel lke it was sincere. Now, is he willing to improve now that he knows how much his flaws have impacted me? Probably not. But its okay since we are not in an official relationship and i don't want to ask him to do so much plus I am getting more convinced to move on so why should I bother. Its one of those situations where its not working right now so lets stop and hope we see each other again in the future.
Is it normal to love/hate someone at the same time?
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It's hard to believe I am being manipulated cause I do believe he is a good guy. He just has these bad traits that I was willing to accept and improve with him. But since he is not putting any effort then I won't either. I kind of wish he was a bad guy from the start so it would be a lot easier to believe I am being manipulated and it would be easier to walk away.
He recently apologized though after I told him what hes been doing to me. It felt good to hear him say that because it takes a lot for him to apologize so I feel lke it was sincere. Now, is he willing to improve now that he knows how much his flaws have impacted me? Probably not. But its okay since we are not in an official relationship and i don't want to ask him to do so much plus I am getting more convinced to move on so why should I bother. Its one of those situations where its not working right now so lets stop and hope we see each other again in the future.