I fear that happening...crying for months and basically not giving love another chance. Honestly I keep meeting so many guys and they show me they're interested unlike him but the feelings aren't there. I'm not gonna love someone just cause they're nice to me. Feelings need to be there, not just your mind telling you this is what you should go for. I think that's where cheating comes from. When you naturally click with someone while you're in a good relationship, its hard to walk away cause the feelings are there and they're a powerful thing. But yeah you have to think smart as well but some people go more with the heart or more with the mind and I go more with the heart. Its more satisfying for me. Like I said I rather be hurting by him than by someone I don't even love that much. But that doesn't mean I'll choose to keep getting hurt...slowly I'm walking away, its taking time.
Is it normal to love/hate someone at the same time?
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I fear that happening...crying for months and basically not giving love another chance. Honestly I keep meeting so many guys and they show me they're interested unlike him but the feelings aren't there. I'm not gonna love someone just cause they're nice to me. Feelings need to be there, not just your mind telling you this is what you should go for. I think that's where cheating comes from. When you naturally click with someone while you're in a good relationship, its hard to walk away cause the feelings are there and they're a powerful thing. But yeah you have to think smart as well but some people go more with the heart or more with the mind and I go more with the heart. Its more satisfying for me. Like I said I rather be hurting by him than by someone I don't even love that much. But that doesn't mean I'll choose to keep getting hurt...slowly I'm walking away, its taking time.