Yeah I feel like I'm already in the process of moving on, it's just really slow and a lot happening during cause its not easy to get over someone you love. I've accepted him and defended him after friends and family tell me the same thing everyone here is telling me because I know that's just his personality. But then I think if he felt the same way I did for him, he would be willing to change since I'm asking him to change for the better not to change his personality for my own pleasure. But since I feel like I'm not even in his top three priorities then I shouldn't expect him to do that for me. We're not an official couple and mutually agreed to that because we have other priorities like just getting our life together in terms of career and a place to live. But he's not at the bottom of my list either. Slowly though, he's getting there.
Is it normal to love/hate someone at the same time?
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Yeah I feel like I'm already in the process of moving on, it's just really slow and a lot happening during cause its not easy to get over someone you love. I've accepted him and defended him after friends and family tell me the same thing everyone here is telling me because I know that's just his personality. But then I think if he felt the same way I did for him, he would be willing to change since I'm asking him to change for the better not to change his personality for my own pleasure. But since I feel like I'm not even in his top three priorities then I shouldn't expect him to do that for me. We're not an official couple and mutually agreed to that because we have other priorities like just getting our life together in terms of career and a place to live. But he's not at the bottom of my list either. Slowly though, he's getting there.