When it comes to is it worth it or not, I feel like yes its worth the hurting and the pain because I love him. If I didn't love and care about him, of course I'd leave in a second. But I rather be hurting for someone I love and adore than by someone I'm not that into.
But yeah I know...its not like me to not stand up for myself. Friends and family question why haven't I walked away and not give a f*ck like I usually do? But I tell them this is different. I've never felt this way before, love makes you weak and vulnerable and thats what I am right now. Its so hard to walk away. I think I'm gonna be one of the ones to have a lost love.
I don't think real love does make you weak. Real love makes you feel strong and secure, not like how you are now. If he makes you feel weak and vulnerable, he is manipulating you not loving you. You won't regret walking away.
It's hard to believe I am being manipulated cause I do believe he is a good guy. He just has these bad traits that I was willing to accept and improve with him. But since he is not putting any effort then I won't either. I kind of wish he was a bad guy from the start so it would be a lot easier to believe I am being manipulated and it would be easier to walk away.
He recently apologized though after I told him what hes been doing to me. It felt good to hear him say that because it takes a lot for him to apologize so I feel lke it was sincere. Now, is he willing to improve now that he knows how much his flaws have impacted me? Probably not. But its okay since we are not in an official relationship and i don't want to ask him to do so much plus I am getting more convinced to move on so why should I bother. Its one of those situations where its not working right now so lets stop and hope we see each other again in the future.
Is it normal to love/hate someone at the same time?
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When it comes to is it worth it or not, I feel like yes its worth the hurting and the pain because I love him. If I didn't love and care about him, of course I'd leave in a second. But I rather be hurting for someone I love and adore than by someone I'm not that into.
But yeah I know...its not like me to not stand up for myself. Friends and family question why haven't I walked away and not give a f*ck like I usually do? But I tell them this is different. I've never felt this way before, love makes you weak and vulnerable and thats what I am right now. Its so hard to walk away. I think I'm gonna be one of the ones to have a lost love.
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I don't think real love does make you weak. Real love makes you feel strong and secure, not like how you are now. If he makes you feel weak and vulnerable, he is manipulating you not loving you. You won't regret walking away.
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It's hard to believe I am being manipulated cause I do believe he is a good guy. He just has these bad traits that I was willing to accept and improve with him. But since he is not putting any effort then I won't either. I kind of wish he was a bad guy from the start so it would be a lot easier to believe I am being manipulated and it would be easier to walk away.
He recently apologized though after I told him what hes been doing to me. It felt good to hear him say that because it takes a lot for him to apologize so I feel lke it was sincere. Now, is he willing to improve now that he knows how much his flaws have impacted me? Probably not. But its okay since we are not in an official relationship and i don't want to ask him to do so much plus I am getting more convinced to move on so why should I bother. Its one of those situations where its not working right now so lets stop and hope we see each other again in the future.