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I love being hurt. If it's me hurting myself or others hurting me, I don't care. mainly physical but sometimes it feels good when people make me want to die or just insult me.
Being gay is not normal, but is normal compared to other abnormal things. Same with masochism. It's not normal, but compared to other abnormalities, it is normal.
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That just means it is normal for the BDSM crowd only. Normal implies the largest margin of society. The BDSM crowed is an alternative lifestyle and a small margin of society.
No it is not normal, you deserve a hard testicles spanking for being a notty boy
No. It is not normal. But it isn't unheard of either, and therefore isn't shocking.. BDSM is currently a trendy counter-culture for "norms" to dip into actually. Most who take a gander into the BDSM sub-culture only play a little on the outskirts (people who are deeply involved consider them "kinksters"). But by doing so, they feel a connection with the culture itself, which creates a broader acceptance of it.
However, even though BDSM is currently more accepted and understood today than ever before, it still is not the norm within western societies.
Emotional hurt is worse than physical hurt because physical hurt eventually heals but emotional hurt lasts for years or worse a lifetime.
If it's in a sexual way you are most likely what people would call a masochist, they usually enjoy being dominated or punished. In most BDSM relationships you have a 'sub' (submissive) and a 'dom' (dominating).
Although what you are experiencing isn't normal, it's not out of the blue or unhealthy.