Is it normal to love a girl who dont know you?

One day when I was in market, I saw a girl at cloths shop, I fall in true love with her. From that day I regularly go to market just only to see her, sometimes I successfully made eye contact but never said her. Can you guys suggest me what to do?

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  • odilo_globotnik

    No, what you have is infatuation. Not "love".

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    • RoseIsabella

      Spot on!

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  • bunnyhabit

    what you feeling is sexual lust not love. you have to know a person to experience love.

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    • Alichael

      Can you actually love and not just lust a celebrity? You know them even though they don't know you.

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      • confused_crystal

        I really love her

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      • bunnyhabit

        no of course not. needs to be some level of face to face intimacy to love someone

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        • Alichael

          But you could love them from what you know about them. I thought you can love and not just lust if you know things about them besides their looks or superficial qualities, and you can fall in love with them from what you know, you would know how they are as a person and love them for that. They just obviously couldn't love you back because they wouldn't know you. That's what I'd thought anyways.

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          • bunnyhabit

            you said just only see her therefore everything you called love is truly lusting

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  • Boojum

    It's not love, it's infatuation or lust. Lots of people confuse the two.

    Based on nothing more than her appearance, you've leapt to all sorts of conclusions about the person she is. If you think about it, you know that makes no sense. For all you know, she could be a truly horrible person who's very good at displaying a pleasant face in public. There are lots of people like that in the world.

    If you want anything to happen, you have to figure out some vaguely plausible reason to speak to her.

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  • no. thats lust. you cannot love someone without getting to know them.

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  • fartmantis

    You should stay away from cloth shops in case they get bedbugs

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  • Whatintarnation

    You fall in true lust with her. Introduce yourself to her before she just thinks you're the creepy stalker type.

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    • Alichael

      I agree. Even if you don't introduce yourself, but make some Smalltalk or something. But she will think you're a stalker if you keep watching her and not conversing.

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