Is it normal to love 3 people?

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Okay so there's my boyfriend, Ex-boyfriend, and my best friend.... i love them all. one time i even cheated on my ex boyfriend ,which at the time was my boyfriend, with my best friend. i knew it was wrong and felt horrible but never got over the feelings for my best friend. Now i have a new boyfriend and i still love my best friend but i really don't want to be in a relationship with him im just really attracted to him. and i am still in love with my ex boyfriend and he won't leave me alone but he got a new girlfriend....what do i do?

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  • Lucyg123
    11 years ago | pl

    To bad love and lust don't go Together

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  • mizztootyfruity
    13 years ago | pl

    You can't continue on with both (even though it seems like you could). Just think about how you would feel if one of them did that to you. Just think about what you really want and choose one of them and if you cant you gotta let both of them go!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Choose one of them, I'd say your best friends seeing as you probably know him better. Just an opinion xx

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  • Reina
    13 years ago | pl

    Please, for your own sake if you cant be with all of them at the same time, close your legs, and focus your eyes on someone 100% worthy. You probably dont want to miss out on the other but in the real world, people learn to prioritise.

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  • PoeticDreamer
    13 years ago | pl

    I've loved multiple people. You could say I still do, but I'm not and can't be in a relationship with any of them so it's not too much of a problem. Maybe you just need to stick to being single for a while, so if anything happens with any of these people you won't have to feel guilty and you can just wait for things to make sense.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Well if you don't want to be in a relationship with your best friend, then it seems like you just have to choose between your ex and your current boyfriend....but if your Ex has a new girlfriend, then you have to respect that and move on.

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  • CraigBerry
    13 years ago | pl

    You have to tell your current boyfriend about your feelings, thats very important. But you have some serious decisions to make, its alright to be attracted to another guy.

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