Is it normal to lose your virginity to a one night stand?

So I lost my virginity 8 days ago, at the age of 21. I should say that I am gay, semi-closeted, I have never had a boyfriend and I don't like using grindr or going to gay clubs... basically I thought I was doomed of staying virgin for life.

8 days ago I met this guy at a party and we started talking. Then we started kissing. Then we fucked, thrice. I have to say that the sex wasn't all that good(due to me being really drunk) but I still enjoyed the night. But I haven't seen that guy again and I have no intention of trying to keep in contact with him. Is it normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • it's not very normal, or common, should I say. Usually one nite stands are by promiscuous people, and promiscuous people aren't virgins!

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  • i lost my virginity behind a walmart.

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    • this makes me happy

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    • Well, don't just stand there, go back there and find it.
      :-p
      Sorry, I couldn't help myself. Is it normal that I find that rather sad?
      :-'(

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      • lol i didnt really. i lost it at my ex's house when her parents wern't home.. i was like 17 lol. i was just makin a funny.. im not that big of a mess lol

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  • I lost my virginity in a Ford Fiesta (you've got to like a car named after a porn mag) to a friend's girl.

    My 2nd virginity I lost on my bed in my flat to a good friend a few days before he got married.

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  • Idk why I laughed so hard at thrice lol. Anyway congrats on the popping of the cherry, I hope it'll give you that little confident boost to find you a man to date :)

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  • Who's Thrice? And was he into it?

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  • I dunno, I gave my virginity to my first love. I sincerely hope you find someone nice with whom to have a loving relationship.

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