Sex is kind of like fire. It requires fuel. You can either build a fire that is designed to burn for a long time in a controlled fashion and not go out easily or can throw everything at it quickly and it will grow bigger and bigger but will require more and more fuel. The latter is what most people do these days. The problem is there isn't enough fuel and it is not satisfying anyway. Ask any body that gets all the chicks and sex and they still be looking for something that satisfies. I would take a look at what you really want in life and find a person that you can build a strong relationship with that is not based on sex. And here's the kicker: even that will not satisfy long term, we all have a God shaped hole... But a strong committed relationship is a good start and way more satisfying than the endless parade of nobodies. It brings meaning to sex. Sex should bring you together and make you stronger but it can't do that if you dont really know each other.
Is it normal to lose sexual interest
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Sex is kind of like fire. It requires fuel. You can either build a fire that is designed to burn for a long time in a controlled fashion and not go out easily or can throw everything at it quickly and it will grow bigger and bigger but will require more and more fuel. The latter is what most people do these days. The problem is there isn't enough fuel and it is not satisfying anyway. Ask any body that gets all the chicks and sex and they still be looking for something that satisfies. I would take a look at what you really want in life and find a person that you can build a strong relationship with that is not based on sex. And here's the kicker: even that will not satisfy long term, we all have a God shaped hole... But a strong committed relationship is a good start and way more satisfying than the endless parade of nobodies. It brings meaning to sex. Sex should bring you together and make you stronger but it can't do that if you dont really know each other.