Is it normal to lose interest in a girl after sex?

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I liked this girl since a few months
And well i tried to be her friend
One day she told me that she likes me too so we went on a few dates
And on our 8th date
Not much of a date i just went to her place to watch a movie and we started kissing making out and gradualy it escalated... And
well we had sex
It was great
But the thing is that now suddenly i have no feelings for her. At first it was like i love this girl ill marry her and all my intentions were pure
But after the intercourse im starting to feel that this girl is a slut and i shouldnt be with her... I mean she is very religious im agnostic... Still i value love and chastity... So idk what to do now... Is it normal to have these feelings? Happen to you? Will they go aaway in time?
Just in case ur wondering im 20 she is 22... Both visit same chirch... Students

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Based on 14 votes (5 yes)
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  • Naamah
    11 years ago

    Your attitude to sex is terrible - the girl should run away ASAP. Value chastity and leave girls who are able to enjoy sex to other men who are worth them.

    Calling the girl a slut is as absurd as visiting church for an agnostic person.

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  • kinda
    11 years ago

    one thing,she is not slut...

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    It sounds like you didn't want to have sex because of your morals or whatever, but you decided in a flurry of clothes-tearing passion to fuck it and have sex anyway.

    Now that the clothes-tearing passion is over, you regret going against your morals. That's normal, feeling regret after sex is a common thing. States of mutual clothes-tearing passion have a habit of making people make decisions they usually wouldn't. But instead of getting to grips with the fact you didn't have the willpower to resist her, you decide to blame her for tempting you into it. That's pretty unfair. You decided, of your own free will, to have sex with her and you're ashamed of the fact that you loved it. Because of that it might be a decision you regret making now, but it was entirely in your hands and no-one else's.

    Don't pin your mistakes on her. Accept them and move on. Leave her if it makes you happy, but she's no slut.

    As a side-note, sex is nothing to be ashamed of. You enjoyed yourself and gained some experience. Not many people would complain about getting great sex. You might not have planned your life to be one of having sex with a girl you don't think you'll marry, but that doesn't mean you did anything wrong or anything you should regret. You had fun. I know that telling people to chill out and relax is rubbish advice that doesn't help anyone, but seriously:

    "Chill out and relax, dude".

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  • The-Village-Idiot
    11 years ago

    Yah tha bang n'run is da best. fuck the pussy and go

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