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I seem to lose my erection after I have penetrated my new friend. She is beginning to get frustrated. I've never used an ED drug, but she wants me to if it happens again.
Too much pressure or something? I couldn't perform once, because the situation didn't feel right and I had a mental block. It really concerned me for a while, until I figured out how normal that kind of thing is if you're uncomfortable or something else. There are lots of things that can affect this.
We have a kid and this happens to me every single time I think I hear him get up in the middle of the night. When we have the morning off together on a school day it doesn't happen.
It can also happen if I have worrisome things on my mind. I make a practice of writing down such stuff before I go to bed. When I close the file it's like shutting down work for the day and this helps me not dwell on things I can do nothing about.
I'm sorry but it's pretty harsh for a girlfriend to ask you to go on medication. Talk to a doctor, sure, but even then, she's still piling her dissatisfaction on an embarrassing issue and it's no wonder you've got nerves around this woman. Make sure she comes as much as she wants before intercourse and that she is comfortable using toys with you. If she's hassling you in spite of all this, personally I would not take such a person's needs very seriously.
It's not normal, if it's reccurring.
It happened to me for some time.
Not sure why. I know condoms made it worst.
it happens to me almost every first time im with a girl even on viagra i guess its because im nervous and somewhat insecure about my size so it can be embarrassing and stressfull especially if the girl thinks its because of me not being attracted to her. if i get a second chance it usually works much better especially on viagra but ive had plenty that i didnt get a second chance with maybe over my inability to keep it hard or maybe because its really small especially limp and they were like uh no thanks to that limp vienna sausage its frustrating and doesnt exactly build confidence for the next time a chance “cums” around its a bad thing to deal with! oh and i nvr have a issue when i jerkoff or it just pops up sometimes but if theres a girl wanting to have sex for our first time i get hard as a
rock and ready to go until im fully inside her even though her puss feels so nice i feel my penis start shrinking quick as i start to slide it in and out which sexually i think is the most ultimate fail possible, usually it doesnt happen if the girl only gives me a helping hand or a bj but then i cant cum no matter how long they do it ugh its really embarrassing because i know its been laughed about by several hot girls at parties on fb or in classes that i have a really small d that wont even get hard anyway!
This is becoming a more common problem as the male body looses it Testosterone. This is occurring earlier in life With the change of diet to more modified foods. A build up of the wrong type of Testosterone occurs in the male body. Changing your diet to a more Keto/Paleo/Organic diet and the use of Beta Blockers will increase the production of correct Testosterone in the body. If you have a history of Hypertension in your family or diabetes this change of diet will also put that under control. Unfortunately the not all ED drugs work for most people and you have a change of increasing your risk of hypertension by using them. Like any drug your body will get use to them and not work effectively. Another therapy that real works Sonicwave treatment. Extracorporeal shock wave lithotripsy or ESWL has been used effectively to increase erection and blood flow.
If it's never happened before with anyone else, what's going on in the relationship or your feelings for her that could be affecting your erection?
If it happened once for no apparent reason, that's normal: is it possible you then started worrying it would happen again? My bloke kept losing his erection when we were spending time in a place he used to go and stay with his wife & family: never happened anywhere else.
This makes no sense. Once I'm in its all downhill from there. If anything getting erect beforehand would be that hard part I reckon.
Was it the condom or was it the anxiety. For some reason females think sex anxiety only happens to males.