You could also try masturbating and try bringing yourself to the point of pleasure, so that "you're warmed up and ready to go" so to speak. Do this until it feels pleasurable, but do not orgasm. Then have your partner join you to finish the job. It's a bit more difficult because you would need to get the timing just right for each other, but it's absolutely do-able. And if that doesn't work either, you should talk to your doctor.
The kegel exercises, however, usually do the trick. Regardless of sex drives, building the pubococcygeal muscles will intensify orgasm, for both men and women.
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You could also try masturbating and try bringing yourself to the point of pleasure, so that "you're warmed up and ready to go" so to speak. Do this until it feels pleasurable, but do not orgasm. Then have your partner join you to finish the job. It's a bit more difficult because you would need to get the timing just right for each other, but it's absolutely do-able. And if that doesn't work either, you should talk to your doctor.
The kegel exercises, however, usually do the trick. Regardless of sex drives, building the pubococcygeal muscles will intensify orgasm, for both men and women.