So the grand parents have come to help? This was an arranged summer vacation to lend a hand with your newborn and you?
If so, big mistake.
People adapt to their surroundings quickly. As above, the bonding time at the beginning is very important. Yes call on help when you need it, but fulltime? Day and night? Have you got a physical or mental issue? If not, then it should just be you and your husband, even if your husband works long hours. That's all you need.
You are an adult, a fulltime provider (including love) and a parent now (if you have previous children, they can even help) You ARE able to do this. People in 3rd world countries do it with little food and poor housing, lack of water etc, they have no time for psychological parental issues. Time to grow up and be that parent. The grand parents will understand (I'm positive) move them out in this special immediate family time. Unless its all too much for you?
no not to help they've been renting this apt as a summer house for several years...but considering all the circumstances...I just didnt want to have to stress over OLD people and a newborn...a fall is so detrimental to old people
Is it normal to live in my babys nursery?
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So the grand parents have come to help? This was an arranged summer vacation to lend a hand with your newborn and you?
If so, big mistake.
People adapt to their surroundings quickly. As above, the bonding time at the beginning is very important. Yes call on help when you need it, but fulltime? Day and night? Have you got a physical or mental issue? If not, then it should just be you and your husband, even if your husband works long hours. That's all you need.
You are an adult, a fulltime provider (including love) and a parent now (if you have previous children, they can even help) You ARE able to do this. People in 3rd world countries do it with little food and poor housing, lack of water etc, they have no time for psychological parental issues. Time to grow up and be that parent. The grand parents will understand (I'm positive) move them out in this special immediate family time. Unless its all too much for you?
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no not to help they've been renting this apt as a summer house for several years...but considering all the circumstances...I just didnt want to have to stress over OLD people and a newborn...a fall is so detrimental to old people