Is it normal to like your same-gender best friend?

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Ok well We're both girls and it's not like I want to have sex (yuck!) but she's nice to me and we support eachother. My mom was Bisexual and creeped me out to no end until she moved away, and her mom is lesbian now. I have just ignored these feelings but i still cling to her arm and sit next to her all the time and she's a good person. Whether or not it's "lesbian" or "bi" I know I love her, as a friend.
So, Is this normal?

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  • ArtemisRampant
    13 years ago | pl

    If you're not even at least a bit curious about her sexually, then chances are you are not gay. You have, however, found a very close friend, and should count yourself lucky. Not every relationship you have needs to fit into a friend-or-lover binary. Having a romantic but nonsexual relationship is perfectly normal for plenty of people.

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  • darnitjoan
    12 years ago | pl

    could be homoromantic (but without the asexual aspect). google it

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  • ruralfrights
    13 years ago | pl

    I think it's normal in the presence of someone you love and appreciate so much to have fleeting feelings of attraction (if your straight) and profound passionate sexual feelings if your gay/lesbian

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  • memyselfandyou
    13 years ago | pl

    You two are just really good friends, just like a family! this is completely normal.

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  • mybuttholesmellsofshit
    13 years ago | pl

    yep, your a dyke.

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  • mothwhisker
    13 years ago | pl

    I talked to her, and she says she's fine with it. :D So I've come to the decision that I am NOT lesbian, but I DO love this one specific girl, and that technically, I'm going to be "in the closet" with my feelings for her.

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  • UrbanArtLover
    13 years ago | pl

    hmm, it sounds a bit lesbiany. but thats perfectly fine.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    you might not be
    you seem to want to repent and hold back these feelings b.c u dont want to feel them
    but i could be wrong
    but yeah, its normal

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    • mothwhisker
      13 years ago | pl

      Maybe you're right, I don't. I want to go my whole life WITHOUT being attracted to women, my mother being a big influince on that. I think it's only THIS girl, I've never been attracted to a girl before, but I wish that I didn't feel this way.

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  • mothwhisker
    13 years ago | pl

    The thing is, she's straight, and I've been straight my whole life, too!

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  • xnox
    13 years ago | pl

    Your absolutely fine. It sounds like you found a soul-mate rather than a girlfriend ;-)

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