Or maybe they've been hurt so much in life and heard that they are ugly from other people so much, they've actually come to believe it?
It's not that much of a stretch to imagine the person has such low confidence they start to criticise themselves. I have no problem with your opinion but you barely ever contribute anything constructive and instead leave mean comments which probably gave this person the mindset they have in the first place.
There are so many more people that have gone through more than just name calling and they dont act so self pitying so what she got called a nasty name boohoo get over it because it happens in this wonderful thing we call life. But hey what do i know im completely wrong in thinking name calling isnt the worst thing anyone has been through right?
If she wants to be seen that way then il look at her that way.
If she doesnt do anything to change how people look at her but instead just agree with it then why should i give her the effort of sympathy if she cant even become stronger than name calling.
Like i said there are so many people that have gone through so many fucked up things but do you hear them complaining? nope but a girl gets called a nasty name and she has to become all weak about it.
You're preaching to the choir here, I know that but not everyone is the same, we have differing sensitivity levels and maybe it wasn't just once.
I don't get why you're so cold about this. And yes, she was negative but if you had taken my meaning that I implied with my words, it was a cue for you to break the cycle.
I'd rather feel something then feel nothing at all ever again, feeling is part of being a human, this girl is unhappy so I chose to try and make her feel better.
All you did was attempt to make her feel worse and in such a childish way. If you have something constructive to say, I could understand but belittling others for no justifiable reason (did she attack you? Hurt you? Insult you? No, she didn't) is quite frankly baffling.
I disslike it when people submit stories so people can sit and go "awww poor girl" while she wont do anything to change it why should people try help someone if they wont help themselfes? you can argue to me that this person wasnt looking for sympathy but in reality its obvious she was people with common sense knows that comments wont help someone get past their problem.
Oh i would like to add she doesnt mention once that anyone else says these things to her meaning that she could be the only one saying it so why should anyone help her fix a problem that she choosed to happen?
And you would think that you wouldnt want a life without feeling but you dont understand how complicated people like me use their minds
like you said feeling is a part of the human life it is "a" part.
Do you really think your comments are going to stop this person from trying to get attention? why else would someone post that they think like this if she really felt this way she would believe she doesnt deserve any advice and wouldnt of submitted the story realise what she is saying what she is trying to percieve herself to be and who she really is.
but then again maybe your too caught up on the emotional side to realise how gullable you are. Alot of people can fake cry.
There you go again with assuming stuff, it's a dangerous thing to do you know?
I'm not guillable and yes, I agree with you on a point, I don't like it when people want sympathy but this story didn't present that sort of tone to me.
If anything, you're the one who appears fake to me, all this bullshit about being "complicated" and unemotional, it sounds like YOU are the one fishing for sympathy and a reaction.
You seem to almost be under the missaprehension that you're the only one who could possibly be the way you are, you are not. I'm a complicated person as well except I don't advertise it online and put up a front. I'm not sorry but I find you to be the attention seeker, with your attitude and comments.
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Oh so its ok calling themself these things but no one else is aloud? sorry but i call it as i see it.
If they do do this then they are pathetic and worthless why shouldnt I see this person as the thing they are trying to make themselfs to be?
Or they are just faking this and looking for attention in which case they are still pathetic maybe even more so.
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Or maybe they've been hurt so much in life and heard that they are ugly from other people so much, they've actually come to believe it?
It's not that much of a stretch to imagine the person has such low confidence they start to criticise themselves. I have no problem with your opinion but you barely ever contribute anything constructive and instead leave mean comments which probably gave this person the mindset they have in the first place.
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There are so many more people that have gone through more than just name calling and they dont act so self pitying so what she got called a nasty name boohoo get over it because it happens in this wonderful thing we call life. But hey what do i know im completely wrong in thinking name calling isnt the worst thing anyone has been through right?
If she wants to be seen that way then il look at her that way.
If she doesnt do anything to change how people look at her but instead just agree with it then why should i give her the effort of sympathy if she cant even become stronger than name calling.
Like i said there are so many people that have gone through so many fucked up things but do you hear them complaining? nope but a girl gets called a nasty name and she has to become all weak about it.
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You're preaching to the choir here, I know that but not everyone is the same, we have differing sensitivity levels and maybe it wasn't just once.
I don't get why you're so cold about this. And yes, she was negative but if you had taken my meaning that I implied with my words, it was a cue for you to break the cycle.
I'd rather feel something then feel nothing at all ever again, feeling is part of being a human, this girl is unhappy so I chose to try and make her feel better.
All you did was attempt to make her feel worse and in such a childish way. If you have something constructive to say, I could understand but belittling others for no justifiable reason (did she attack you? Hurt you? Insult you? No, she didn't) is quite frankly baffling.
Are you really so hard faced?
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I disslike it when people submit stories so people can sit and go "awww poor girl" while she wont do anything to change it why should people try help someone if they wont help themselfes? you can argue to me that this person wasnt looking for sympathy but in reality its obvious she was people with common sense knows that comments wont help someone get past their problem.
Oh i would like to add she doesnt mention once that anyone else says these things to her meaning that she could be the only one saying it so why should anyone help her fix a problem that she choosed to happen?
And you would think that you wouldnt want a life without feeling but you dont understand how complicated people like me use their minds
like you said feeling is a part of the human life it is "a" part.
Do you really think your comments are going to stop this person from trying to get attention? why else would someone post that they think like this if she really felt this way she would believe she doesnt deserve any advice and wouldnt of submitted the story realise what she is saying what she is trying to percieve herself to be and who she really is.
but then again maybe your too caught up on the emotional side to realise how gullable you are. Alot of people can fake cry.
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There you go again with assuming stuff, it's a dangerous thing to do you know?
I'm not guillable and yes, I agree with you on a point, I don't like it when people want sympathy but this story didn't present that sort of tone to me.
If anything, you're the one who appears fake to me, all this bullshit about being "complicated" and unemotional, it sounds like YOU are the one fishing for sympathy and a reaction.
You seem to almost be under the missaprehension that you're the only one who could possibly be the way you are, you are not. I'm a complicated person as well except I don't advertise it online and put up a front. I'm not sorry but I find you to be the attention seeker, with your attitude and comments.
And that negativity thing at the end you said yes that is true but she is being negative so she breeded my negative comment.