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Is it normal that I want my wife to spank me, hard? She says she is willing but afraid she will hurt me. I am almost twice her size and pretty fit so that's not likely. The mild pain and the scene itself turns me on. What do you think?
I believe is quite normal for a dominant woman to whip or spank their male slave’s even if they’re not going to have sex. I’ve had women admit that it’s a turn on for a big strong guy to strip naked and take a good spanking from his girlfriend or wife.
UNFORTUNATELY erotic spanking not normal--not commonly accepted as <wink> <wink> cheeky sex play by people today--
OR is that what makes it feel a bit naughty and exciting?
Since this topic fascinates me, I constantly search spanking on the web and find that lots of people are interested, have tried it, are into it, or unable to enjoy spanking with their lover.
I've fantasized about spanking since I was age 5--way before puberty, so I guess I was born with it, but with puberty it became my greatest turn-on. After 10 years of loving marriage I told my wife and tried to get us to try it; I shocked her and she mumbled OK but was unwilling. That was 11 years ago and I'm still frustrated but unwilling to try spanking play with another woman because spanking is SO sexually charged for me. Although I'm not hot to spank my wife, I'd like her to spank me good for sex. We're responsible and mature enough that neither of us need or want punitive spanking.
Here are some webpages on foreplay spanking that you might like:
https://pandagossips.com/posts/5896
https://www.skinful.com/Advice/showthread.php-threadid=3688.php
https://medium.com/sexography/how-to-give-a-sensual-spanking-bcd0e3af2db3
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a40125209/spanking/?slide=1
https://www.tickleberry.co.uk/news/spank-holiday-weekend/
It's very normal -- and my wife uses a hard soled slipper on me to prove it!