Is it normal to like to be hit on by gay peopel, even though i'm not

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Okay, so I find that I like being hit on by gay guys, but I'm not gay. Which I guess everyone likes attention, but when girls hit on me especially if they are aggressive I get all nervous and uncomfortable. To add to that I feel like I go out of my way to not be aggressive with girls especially when I like them. Probably to the point where they dont think I'm interested, but making moves and overtly flirting makes me super self conscious with girls, but like if its a guy then I think its fun and it makes me feel good (like i'm attractive I guess). I guess where its the same with guys and girls, I dont like it when anybody just grinds on me or touches me in a sexually suggestive way when I'm trying to get to know them...for guys its because I'm not sexually attracted to them, but with girls its because it makes me nervous and feels inappropriate...idk is this normal?

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  • Wubwubwub
    12 years ago

    Norm. I love to be flattered by both sexes ;)

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    The show "How I Met Your Mother" had an episode referencing this.

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    • Kindalame
      12 years ago

      what episode, I'd like to watch that.

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      • Shackleford96
        12 years ago

        I'm not sure. Ted and Marshall ended up in a gay bar for some reason. I think it may have had to do with Barney's older brother if I remember correctly. It was pretty funny though. They were getting hit on and talked about how it boosted their self-esteem. Marshall finally thought he was going to be able to order an exotic fruit drink without fear of being judged, but then Lily thought it was for her and took it from him.

        That's about all I can remember of that episode though.

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