Is it normal to like the idea of being a slave?

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  • In other words you want a bit of BDSM play and you want to turn it on and off at your leisure. Maybe dressed up in a sexy maids outfit, ordered about for a couple of hours, bit of spanking because you didn’t do things well enough or quick enough, finish off with a good fuck. There’s nothing wrong with that and if it’s what you want and you can find a compatible partner then go for it and have fun. But, it’s not what you put in your post. If you want to be owned like a slave you don’t get to choose when and where. I am married to my husband 24/7 he is in charge 24/7. If I’m a bad girl I get spanked, it hurts and I don’t like it, but I don’t ever get to choose for it not to happen. I don’t get to decide his decision to punish me is wrong and I don’t get to choose where or when it takes place.

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    • Definitely not 24/7 of being a slave because I want at least a little bit of a life, but I would want my boyfriend or husband to be in charge 24/7 even if it isn’t me being a slave, not getting to choose if and when I get punished is part of the fun for me

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      • Sounds reasonable to me. I would never consider myself a slave. But, if it’s real then being punished is not fun. I will give you an example, a grocery shop to Tesco normally takes me about 45 minutes, recently when the lockdown first started I went to do a grocery shop, due to social distancing measures now in place I queued just over an hour to get in the shop, wasn’t expecting that. Once inside I filled the trolley in the normal way then discovered I had to join a huge queue to get to the check out. That queue took 40 minutes. Due to all this when I finally got home I made dinner which ended up on the table an hour later than expected. If meals are late to the table I will usually get 1 hard spank for every 5 minutes. Sometimes I will be let off if there is a good reason or perhaps have the punishment reduced. I therefore knew I was at risk of 12 of the best and that isn’t nice, I thought however I had a good enough reason to be let off. My husband didn’t agree, he considered as I knew about Covid19 I should have anticipated there may be problems and planned a better time for the grocery shop. I said please I don’t want 12 he told me I wasn’t getting 12. As a special measure to remind me to plan better in future I was getting 19 as that would remind me to plan for the effects of covid19. By 10 I was in tears with the pain, he kept going and each one felt like it was getting harder. At the end I always have to thank him or get more. I thanked him before doing the washing up.

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    • Now that is hot

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