It all depends on context. I consider that my husband owns me, when we got married I promised to love, honour and obey him and that’s what I do. But I am his wife not his slave. You could say he controls me and that would be true in many aspects of my life. He has expectations about the way I dress and behave, about my diet and maintaining a healthy weight. He expects me to keep a clean and tidy house, cook his meals and launder his clothes. When the children were growing up he expected me to raise them and ensure they behaved properly. If I do not behaved myself and do all the above I get my arse spanked, that is not pleasant but it is a healthy reminder of my place in life. Some people might consider I am some sort of slave for living this life, but I think it’s a good life and a healthy marriage.
If I was not punished when I step out of line, would I carry out my wifely duties with the same care and attention? Would I maintain my diet and fitness to the same degree? Would I start suffocating my mini by wearing trousers, underwear, tights etc? The answer to all those questions is I would probably break the rules now and again, that then becomes more frequent, and then more so until eventually I just do as I please. Without punishment for wrongdoing we will have no enforcement of rules.
Hmmm, that isn’t too far from what I imagine, except I would actually like to be ordered around and treated like an object. It wouldn't be 24/7 and it’s completely consensual tho
In other words you want a bit of BDSM play and you want to turn it on and off at your leisure. Maybe dressed up in a sexy maids outfit, ordered about for a couple of hours, bit of spanking because you didn’t do things well enough or quick enough, finish off with a good fuck. There’s nothing wrong with that and if it’s what you want and you can find a compatible partner then go for it and have fun. But, it’s not what you put in your post. If you want to be owned like a slave you don’t get to choose when and where. I am married to my husband 24/7 he is in charge 24/7. If I’m a bad girl I get spanked, it hurts and I don’t like it, but I don’t ever get to choose for it not to happen. I don’t get to decide his decision to punish me is wrong and I don’t get to choose where or when it takes place.
Definitely not 24/7 of being a slave because I want at least a little bit of a life, but I would want my boyfriend or husband to be in charge 24/7 even if it isn’t me being a slave, not getting to choose if and when I get punished is part of the fun for me
Sounds reasonable to me. I would never consider myself a slave. But, if it’s real then being punished is not fun. I will give you an example, a grocery shop to Tesco normally takes me about 45 minutes, recently when the lockdown first started I went to do a grocery shop, due to social distancing measures now in place I queued just over an hour to get in the shop, wasn’t expecting that. Once inside I filled the trolley in the normal way then discovered I had to join a huge queue to get to the check out. That queue took 40 minutes. Due to all this when I finally got home I made dinner which ended up on the table an hour later than expected. If meals are late to the table I will usually get 1 hard spank for every 5 minutes. Sometimes I will be let off if there is a good reason or perhaps have the punishment reduced. I therefore knew I was at risk of 12 of the best and that isn’t nice, I thought however I had a good enough reason to be let off. My husband didn’t agree, he considered as I knew about Covid19 I should have anticipated there may be problems and planned a better time for the grocery shop. I said please I don’t want 12 he told me I wasn’t getting 12. As a special measure to remind me to plan better in future I was getting 19 as that would remind me to plan for the effects of covid19. By 10 I was in tears with the pain, he kept going and each one felt like it was getting harder. At the end I always have to thank him or get more. I thanked him before doing the washing up.
Would you want to be completely under his control in bed? Sexual submission can be absolutely spell binding. An old girlfriend once zip tied me to the headboard of her bed. She controlled my very breathing, and dripped hot wax on me from a burning candle. I was commanded to call her madam. She fucked my brains out. In the end, my teeth felt cold from the orgasmic intensity of it all.
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It all depends on context. I consider that my husband owns me, when we got married I promised to love, honour and obey him and that’s what I do. But I am his wife not his slave. You could say he controls me and that would be true in many aspects of my life. He has expectations about the way I dress and behave, about my diet and maintaining a healthy weight. He expects me to keep a clean and tidy house, cook his meals and launder his clothes. When the children were growing up he expected me to raise them and ensure they behaved properly. If I do not behaved myself and do all the above I get my arse spanked, that is not pleasant but it is a healthy reminder of my place in life. Some people might consider I am some sort of slave for living this life, but I think it’s a good life and a healthy marriage.
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I was with you the whole way until you said he literally spanked you for discipline lol
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If I was not punished when I step out of line, would I carry out my wifely duties with the same care and attention? Would I maintain my diet and fitness to the same degree? Would I start suffocating my mini by wearing trousers, underwear, tights etc? The answer to all those questions is I would probably break the rules now and again, that then becomes more frequent, and then more so until eventually I just do as I please. Without punishment for wrongdoing we will have no enforcement of rules.
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In other words you want a bit of BDSM play and you want to turn it on and off at your leisure. Maybe dressed up in a sexy maids outfit, ordered about for a couple of hours, bit of spanking because you didn’t do things well enough or quick enough, finish off with a good fuck. There’s nothing wrong with that and if it’s what you want and you can find a compatible partner then go for it and have fun. But, it’s not what you put in your post. If you want to be owned like a slave you don’t get to choose when and where. I am married to my husband 24/7 he is in charge 24/7. If I’m a bad girl I get spanked, it hurts and I don’t like it, but I don’t ever get to choose for it not to happen. I don’t get to decide his decision to punish me is wrong and I don’t get to choose where or when it takes place.
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Definitely not 24/7 of being a slave because I want at least a little bit of a life, but I would want my boyfriend or husband to be in charge 24/7 even if it isn’t me being a slave, not getting to choose if and when I get punished is part of the fun for me
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Sounds reasonable to me. I would never consider myself a slave. But, if it’s real then being punished is not fun. I will give you an example, a grocery shop to Tesco normally takes me about 45 minutes, recently when the lockdown first started I went to do a grocery shop, due to social distancing measures now in place I queued just over an hour to get in the shop, wasn’t expecting that. Once inside I filled the trolley in the normal way then discovered I had to join a huge queue to get to the check out. That queue took 40 minutes. Due to all this when I finally got home I made dinner which ended up on the table an hour later than expected. If meals are late to the table I will usually get 1 hard spank for every 5 minutes. Sometimes I will be let off if there is a good reason or perhaps have the punishment reduced. I therefore knew I was at risk of 12 of the best and that isn’t nice, I thought however I had a good enough reason to be let off. My husband didn’t agree, he considered as I knew about Covid19 I should have anticipated there may be problems and planned a better time for the grocery shop. I said please I don’t want 12 he told me I wasn’t getting 12. As a special measure to remind me to plan better in future I was getting 19 as that would remind me to plan for the effects of covid19. By 10 I was in tears with the pain, he kept going and each one felt like it was getting harder. At the end I always have to thank him or get more. I thanked him before doing the washing up.
Now that is hot
Would you want to be completely under his control in bed? Sexual submission can be absolutely spell binding. An old girlfriend once zip tied me to the headboard of her bed. She controlled my very breathing, and dripped hot wax on me from a burning candle. I was commanded to call her madam. She fucked my brains out. In the end, my teeth felt cold from the orgasmic intensity of it all.
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Yeah that sounds amazing tbh, maybe not the hot wax, or zip ties because I’ve heard those can be dangerous
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The helplessness and trust is what makes the experience so intense.
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Agreed