Is it normal to like the idea of being a slave?

Ok I know this is very weird and somewhat offensive, but I want answers. I really like the idea of being owned by someone else and being controlled by them. Just being property of someone else.

Is It Normal?
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  • So is this a role play thing? Then find a trusting partner who will help. If it's a 24 hour lifestyle thing, then you might not want to search since you could run into someone who's potentially abusive.

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    • Yeah, I’ve thought about 24 hour lifestyle but I also kinda want a life too, so it would probably just be a role play thing with it occasionally being long term (like for a whole weekend)

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      • That sounds ideal
        I have thought about it too
        Even role played with a guy friend and it was really nice. Just pick someone you really trust.

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        • I haven’t really done any of this stuff irl, but yeah trust is probably the most important part

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          • Wouldnt not trusting her add to the excitement though? Lol

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            • Trusting him is important because I don’t want to get hurt, but he remains in charge

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  • I'd rather die on my feet than live on my knees!

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  • BDSM relationships are normal

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    • ... in Hell.

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      • It’s not for everyone but people are into different things and BDSM type stuff is probably the most common fetish in the world

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        • Yeah, the more I look into it the more common it seems to be even though it is seemingly messed up

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          • It’s not even messed up as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult

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            • Yeah but the concepts look that way from an outsiders perspective, like cnc looks like there isn’t consent but there is. I’m not judging or anything bc I like most of those things

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      • Looooooooooooooooool

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        • 👍🏻

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        • Loooool XD.... unless?? 😳😳

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          • Tell you what, dude. I'm a nice guy; if you want to be my slave and do all my work then I'll only charge you a small fee.

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            • Nah man it’s more of a sexual thing, I’m weak and lazy otherwise

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  • Normal if that's what turns you on, if not, not normal. BE CAREFUL! I spent some time in the BDSM community years back and unless it's changed there are lot of people who want to be masters or mistresses who don't observe boundaries, play sexually when they're drunk and/or on drugs, ignore safe words and most commonly, the power involved in the sex play goes to their heads and they turn into bullies outside the bedroom or wherever you're playing.

    In my opinion, involvement in this sort of behavior just for the thrill leads nowhere except to boredom and sometimes worse: if you're in a trustworthy relationship broach the subject and see what happens, but still BE CAREFUL!

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    • PS: Also, be aware that what turns you on in fantasy may not do so in reality: one saying I heard years ago is "Fantasies are hungrier than bodies" and I would add, a LOT hungrier!

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      • Yeah, even tho I want to be a slave, I want a partner who is also loving and kind out of bed, which is more important than any kink imo

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  • Be careful what you wish for.

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    • Yeah something like this involves a lot fo trust with your partner

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  • And all them Africans used to whinge about picking cotton and saying yes master. Ungrateful bastards. They got fed, they got a roof over their head, these days we call it being employed.

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    • Umm that’s kinda unrelated and racist. Unlike me they didn’t want to be slaves lol

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      • That's -- for you. That comment wasn't meant to be taken seriously.

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        • Yeah I can tell looking back at it, still want an answer tho

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  • I’m a sex worker and the sub guys (put me on a leash, I’m a slave types) are the most needy of the bunch.

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  • I would say normal when having sex. I love being a slave, move being used and letting a guy do whatever he wants to me when having sex. I have no limits, willing to try and do anything. It adds spice when making love and ends with me getting fantastic orgasms. Being used and abused is a big turn on for me, I accept it's not for everyone, but works for me.

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  • I don't see how this could be seen as NOT normal. Might not be my cup of tea, but this is far from unusual or weird.

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  • Normal? No. But it's one of the more common fetishes. BDSM.

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  • depends on the person, if your into it then dont let anyone tell you different, each person is an individual and should be treated as such.

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  • Historically slaves were needed for a society of any large size before industrialization. Slavery is terrible for anyone involved especially the slaves.

    That's why I truely hate slavery. You can hate the practice but respect the need for it when applicable. Slavery now is 100% logically wrong and inefficient to be practiced by anyone. Any nation that has slaves operating inside *cough russia, china, most of africa and the middle east and not to forget North Korea may its leader burn in hell. Cough* (wow that was a bad cough) are barbaric and are not worthy of being called civilized.

    We cant look at the past with the eyes of today, if you lack the perspective you wont learn anything from history.

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    • You forgot to mention American prisons.

      US Constitution, Thirteenth Amendment: “Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction.”

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      • I'm an advocate for paying more money to prisoners doing jobs. Prisoners do lose some rights while they are incarcerated but most often the job they are assigned are basic household duties to bring costs down for holding said prisoners. It costs around 30,000$ to keep prisoners alive and well. They are prisoners serving their time to the state. Everyone needs to work in a fuctioning society even prisoners. Only 6% do actual manufacturing and agricultural work. During said time are paid wages and achieve credit to help them when they get out of prison. Now if you have a problem with the wages and credit afterwards I understand, but the work itself is a massive upgrade to how the older prison systems work.

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    • Yeah but the way I want to be a slave is different from historical slavery, it’s a sexual thing and unlike actual slaves from that time I want to be one

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      • Theres a plenty out there that do what you want to do. I'm a versatile but that level of submission is something I cant do.

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  • Like a slave in a sexual way? they took that section of craigslist down. If you mean actual slavery though there's still an "odd jobs" section on there where you could probaly find somebody who'll be happy to let you live on their property in exchange for free labor

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    • In a sexual way lol, not really looking to be one atm, just wanna know if it’s normal to want to be one

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  • It all depends on context. I consider that my husband owns me, when we got married I promised to love, honour and obey him and that’s what I do. But I am his wife not his slave. You could say he controls me and that would be true in many aspects of my life. He has expectations about the way I dress and behave, about my diet and maintaining a healthy weight. He expects me to keep a clean and tidy house, cook his meals and launder his clothes. When the children were growing up he expected me to raise them and ensure they behaved properly. If I do not behaved myself and do all the above I get my arse spanked, that is not pleasant but it is a healthy reminder of my place in life. Some people might consider I am some sort of slave for living this life, but I think it’s a good life and a healthy marriage.

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    • I was with you the whole way until you said he literally spanked you for discipline lol

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      • If I was not punished when I step out of line, would I carry out my wifely duties with the same care and attention? Would I maintain my diet and fitness to the same degree? Would I start suffocating my mini by wearing trousers, underwear, tights etc? The answer to all those questions is I would probably break the rules now and again, that then becomes more frequent, and then more so until eventually I just do as I please. Without punishment for wrongdoing we will have no enforcement of rules.

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    • Hmmm, that isn’t too far from what I imagine, except I would actually like to be ordered around and treated like an object. It wouldn't be 24/7 and it’s completely consensual tho

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      • In other words you want a bit of BDSM play and you want to turn it on and off at your leisure. Maybe dressed up in a sexy maids outfit, ordered about for a couple of hours, bit of spanking because you didn’t do things well enough or quick enough, finish off with a good fuck. There’s nothing wrong with that and if it’s what you want and you can find a compatible partner then go for it and have fun. But, it’s not what you put in your post. If you want to be owned like a slave you don’t get to choose when and where. I am married to my husband 24/7 he is in charge 24/7. If I’m a bad girl I get spanked, it hurts and I don’t like it, but I don’t ever get to choose for it not to happen. I don’t get to decide his decision to punish me is wrong and I don’t get to choose where or when it takes place.

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        • Definitely not 24/7 of being a slave because I want at least a little bit of a life, but I would want my boyfriend or husband to be in charge 24/7 even if it isn’t me being a slave, not getting to choose if and when I get punished is part of the fun for me

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          • Sounds reasonable to me. I would never consider myself a slave. But, if it’s real then being punished is not fun. I will give you an example, a grocery shop to Tesco normally takes me about 45 minutes, recently when the lockdown first started I went to do a grocery shop, due to social distancing measures now in place I queued just over an hour to get in the shop, wasn’t expecting that. Once inside I filled the trolley in the normal way then discovered I had to join a huge queue to get to the check out. That queue took 40 minutes. Due to all this when I finally got home I made dinner which ended up on the table an hour later than expected. If meals are late to the table I will usually get 1 hard spank for every 5 minutes. Sometimes I will be let off if there is a good reason or perhaps have the punishment reduced. I therefore knew I was at risk of 12 of the best and that isn’t nice, I thought however I had a good enough reason to be let off. My husband didn’t agree, he considered as I knew about Covid19 I should have anticipated there may be problems and planned a better time for the grocery shop. I said please I don’t want 12 he told me I wasn’t getting 12. As a special measure to remind me to plan better in future I was getting 19 as that would remind me to plan for the effects of covid19. By 10 I was in tears with the pain, he kept going and each one felt like it was getting harder. At the end I always have to thank him or get more. I thanked him before doing the washing up.

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        • Now that is hot

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      • Would you want to be completely under his control in bed? Sexual submission can be absolutely spell binding. An old girlfriend once zip tied me to the headboard of her bed. She controlled my very breathing, and dripped hot wax on me from a burning candle. I was commanded to call her madam. She fucked my brains out. In the end, my teeth felt cold from the orgasmic intensity of it all.

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        • Yeah that sounds amazing tbh, maybe not the hot wax, or zip ties because I’ve heard those can be dangerous

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