I'm in the same situation as you. What I do is I tell that guy all about my ex and what happened between me and my ex. He has the choice to stay with me or leave. If he is the one then he will have to be patient. Everyone has the past. If you really love someone you have to accept their past.
Yeah I have been completely honest with this guy and he knows I'm not over my ex but he is still sticking around making the effort to be with me. Guys in general don't care about other guys which is why cheating always happens. But the fact that he is still around says he does want something with me but I can't give it to him with the way I feel. I need more time til I settle down with someone else. It's just weird how I don't want any of the things I did with my ex to happen with this guy or any guy. Those small things I cherish and truly feel like they're his. If I do something to him I used to do to my ex and it was natural, I'll panic cause it means my ex didn't mean as much as I thought or I feel as strongly about this guy like I felt for my ex which I don't think so cause I don't. It's kind of devastating to think my ex didn't mean as much cause I feel like he did
If that guy is ok with that then u do whatever u want to do. First love is always special that's why u will always have some feelings for ur ex and that's ok. Who should you be with? Time will answer everything.
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I'm in the same situation as you. What I do is I tell that guy all about my ex and what happened between me and my ex. He has the choice to stay with me or leave. If he is the one then he will have to be patient. Everyone has the past. If you really love someone you have to accept their past.
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Yeah I have been completely honest with this guy and he knows I'm not over my ex but he is still sticking around making the effort to be with me. Guys in general don't care about other guys which is why cheating always happens. But the fact that he is still around says he does want something with me but I can't give it to him with the way I feel. I need more time til I settle down with someone else. It's just weird how I don't want any of the things I did with my ex to happen with this guy or any guy. Those small things I cherish and truly feel like they're his. If I do something to him I used to do to my ex and it was natural, I'll panic cause it means my ex didn't mean as much as I thought or I feel as strongly about this guy like I felt for my ex which I don't think so cause I don't. It's kind of devastating to think my ex didn't mean as much cause I feel like he did
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If that guy is ok with that then u do whatever u want to do. First love is always special that's why u will always have some feelings for ur ex and that's ok. Who should you be with? Time will answer everything.