Is it normal to like someone but never want to see them

I've been talking to this guy over the course of a few years off & on. We've met a couple of times but nothing ever came of it. He keeps telling me he wants to hug me, he wants to cuddle me, he wants to kiss me, he misses me,he wants me to sit on his face lol. And that I can ride his four wheeler because I love riding. But he never brings up an attempt to meet up or even hang out and when I attempt to he deflects or is busy. What is with this guy? It's so confusing, is this normal?

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22% Normal
Based on 18 votes (4 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • RoseIsabella

    He's probably in a relationship now. Forget about his crazy ass.

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  • Nickvey

    you are his hobby. he has a lover already. you are getting tired of being the hobby.

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  • Mark92

    Yes sometimes I like to keep a distance from those who i care for the most, I fear that next time we meet something bad might happen and we might end up hating each other, and prefer to be far away with happy memories of my good times with them. its a strange feeling, but seeing your post makes me realize I am not alone...

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  • Seems like he isn't that interested in hanging out or he would. Possible he may have social anxiety, but if he doesn't he is wasting your time.

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  • Go to his place and sit on his face.

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  • McBean

    Weird. Instead of getting his hands on you, maybe he is loading up his mind to perv about you.

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  • Whatintarnation

    Sounds like he's seeing someone else already.

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  • redeyez7

    Maybe he just wanna take his time of getting to know you better, or just wait for you to ask him.

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    • I have asked him to no avail.

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  • e51pegasi

    Now there's a tempting offer if ever I've heard one. Permission to "ride his four wheeler".

    He must really like you.

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  • itachi_uchiha

    You sure its a guy??

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    • Yes, lmao.

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      • itachi_uchiha

        No I mean Sexually is he a guy or gay??

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        • EnglishLad

          News flash: Being gay doesn't mean you automatically lose your penis and grow a vagina...

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          • itachi_uchiha

            News flash: I know what gay means that was just a joke but thanx for letting me know you had very little sense of humor😊

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