If you are trying to get involved with him and she is not open to that, it's important to communicate, to explain how important your friendship is to you, and to determine any actions that need to be taken--for example, if you need to hang out just one on one without her bringing him along.
On the other hand, perhaps they're interested in an open relationship. If he is attracted to you, she could hardly do better than involve a girl that she likes and trusts as much as her best friend.
Just don't throw yourself at him without communication! He might rebuff you and then tell your friend, who would feel betrayed. The "best" case is that you would get the guy and betray, and thus lose, your best friend, and if he cheated on her to get you, he would be likely to cheat on you for the next girl.
Is it normal to like my best friends boyfriend?
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Discuss it with your best friend.
If he is trying to cheat on her, she should know.
If you are trying to get involved with him and she is not open to that, it's important to communicate, to explain how important your friendship is to you, and to determine any actions that need to be taken--for example, if you need to hang out just one on one without her bringing him along.
On the other hand, perhaps they're interested in an open relationship. If he is attracted to you, she could hardly do better than involve a girl that she likes and trusts as much as her best friend.
Just don't throw yourself at him without communication! He might rebuff you and then tell your friend, who would feel betrayed. The "best" case is that you would get the guy and betray, and thus lose, your best friend, and if he cheated on her to get you, he would be likely to cheat on you for the next girl.