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My best friend boyfriend is my crush I love him a lot...But I do not want to betray her.He is also my friend and is always doing things that seam to be showing that he likes me.They have been dating for like 3 years.I really want to tell him that I like him what do you think I should do?
Ignore any advances he makes & inform him that he is in a stable relationship with your best friend.
It all depends on how much you value your friendship with your best friend & how much you want her boyfriend.
Why would you want to be with a shit who behaves like that. Even if he is prepared to throw a 3 year old relationship away to get with you he's hardly a keeper. Plus how long do you seriously think this prospective romance is going to last?
When I had a boyfriend, my friends sort of made it obvious that they secretely liked him. He was sexy, but a major arse.
You need to definitely not tell her unless you don’t mind losing her!! Don’t b that girl. Sorry. Maybe make a fake social media account and try to talk to him... sounds like you may be spending too much time around them.
Normal to have a crush on people, but since he is your best friend's bf I suggest you look some where else, there are guys out there you might like. I am friendly with my girl friend's friends, I even find some very attractive, but would never cheat on her with them or anyone, she is my whole world, and would love her alone till death...
Either don't act anything out or tell both of them(not in the same time of course) just don't get into anything without her knowing. Be prepared to lose both him and her
Discuss it with your best friend.
If he is trying to cheat on her, she should know.
If you are trying to get involved with him and she is not open to that, it's important to communicate, to explain how important your friendship is to you, and to determine any actions that need to be taken--for example, if you need to hang out just one on one without her bringing him along.
On the other hand, perhaps they're interested in an open relationship. If he is attracted to you, she could hardly do better than involve a girl that she likes and trusts as much as her best friend.
Just don't throw yourself at him without communication! He might rebuff you and then tell your friend, who would feel betrayed. The "best" case is that you would get the guy and betray, and thus lose, your best friend, and if he cheated on her to get you, he would be likely to cheat on you for the next girl.